Women loves Cocky guys

[CobraIsTheBest]

:twisted:

yeah man, that
shit is true but like everything else there's a lot of factors to consider and also different girls
like different things

but for the most part i agree show confidence and be funny and
lively but don't be a rapist type person

[Genuinity]

women love confident
guys.

the general law states that a confident guy probably has more to be confident
about than a insecure one. you just look better if you're confident.

with that said, you
look better cocky than you do insecure. its best just to be confident, though.

on a side
note, i'm sick of arrows being automatically placed in my post.

[Gravity]

LOL... if any girl is into guys that
would hit her. RUN... you don't wanna do time.

[Joseph Orion]

I tried a few experiments myself
and that whole little quote up there that Dai posted is entirely wrong.

For these reasons.
After going out with friends and all trying these techniques, I've come up with the
following.

Nice is interpreted many different ways that there isn't just ONE type of nice.
A nice guy can be timid and shy. Or a nice guy can be an outgoing person who is simply
friendly. Someone who listens, etc.

9 times out of 10, women do not like the timid and
shy approach. Such as "yeah my friend likes you" *points and friend kind of cowers* it's not
attractive. She's more attracted to the guy who, like Jai stated, says "Hey Girl!"

Now
being the outgoing and friendly type is a rare case. There aren't too many guys like this. It's
usually too nice (yes this can happen...it's called borderline homosexual lol) or just too mean.
I've tested this approach the most and has gotten me more numbers and general attention
than either being a jerk (that sexuality stuff is bullshit) or being the shy guy in the corner who
smiles.

Once I've started talking to someone, I am assertive in my approach, not rude
and always respectful. Women find this sexy. Why? It's easy. Jerks are compensating for
small dicks or poor sexual performance. Someone who is nice and will actually listen and
participate in conversations shows women they are confident in themselves and they don't
need to be a loud obnoxious fuck to get attention. Show attention and you get attention.


Nice guys don't finish last, they hang out in the back because the assholes push their
way to the front, too eager to get women and once the girls wade through all the bullshit, they
find the nice guys in the back and it was worth the wait ;)

[YO BOY]

GIRLS LIKE RESPECT THAT
SHIT U CAN FAKE IT TO I DO IT ALL THE TIME

[Gravity]

Alright... LOL.... first lines we
need to draw are between girls and women, and between boys and men. THERE IS A
DIFFERENCE! BELIEVE ME. :P

1. When I was 16, I would have talked to any almost
attractive male that wasn't strange and twitch, or disrespectful. Don't mean I would have
gone out with him, just means I would have given him the time of day. But I've never been the
girl to stop when guys say "Hey girl!" when you're walking past, when they're driving past, or
even on the other side of the street.

2. When I was 19 I was friendlier. I would talk to
anyone that was nice, but I was still picky about who I would go out with. Just not picky
enough. If the guy was attractive, we had some things in common, good convo, secure,
respectful. I was into conceited men, as long as they knew what was up, and weren't trying to
talk all over me. If they tried it was over. No chance. It wasn't that I prefered such guys, but
I'd rather a guy that was stuck on himself than one that was insecure and didn't know his
worth.

3. Now, I'm not into conceited guys. I'm into guys that know their worth and
high expectation for others around them and themselves. I've always been into respectful
guys, but that little bad streak some females are attracted to has to do a little with rebellion and
a little to do with that guy being "strong" at least in appearance. Anyways, the bar has
seriously been raised. Now I'd never deal with the a guy that didn't have the same core
values that I do. I wouldn't deal with a guy that thinks it's ok for a woman to put out on the
first day. Why? Even if he doesn't expect me to, he's still lower himself to that level and
obviously isn't too concerned with the level of respect that a woman actually has for herself. I
wouldn't deal with a guy that's around a lot of "wild" individuals all the time, even if he's not
one of them. Why? Because that shows what is acceptable to him. It shows what he doesn't
disagree with. He may not agree with it by acting in the same manner, but he's agreeing by
being a.... "silent partner" in that.

So... in short... as a female grows in her life what she
will and won't settle for changes. Just as males change. I know plenty of girls that stay in
relationships with jerks because they think that's the best they can do or because they simply
don't have enough respect for themselves.

It's not about girls/women not knowing
what they want, it's about not seeing what a person is really about when you first meet them.
And after seeing that this guy is no good... not having the courage to end things.


Being an alpha man does not equate to being a jerk. :-)


There is actually
something interesting that I read about the Alpha Female vs. the Queen Bee.

[Joseph Orion]

The only time I get called a jerk is when
they say it in a playful tone? Why? Because I don’t say rude or mean things in a serious tone. I
say it playfully to tease her, and my tone of voice makes it CRYSTAL CLEAR that I’m not
serious. Let me provide some actual information that might make sense to all you bashers and
maybe you can provide me with the same to defend your points of view???? Perhaps even fill
me in that you have tried this out to no avail. I have been on both sides of the fence rather
than speaking ignorantly like some of you...



Hell, man. If it works for you, then cool.
People are different. They aren't "bashers" or "ignorant" because they live life differently
than you. When you say things like that, it's equivalent to saying "I'm right, you're wrong.
These are my ways, this is how it is." To an extent, that's true. It works for you and for
people you know and that's all it matters. If scoring with women means eating cow shit and
you do it all the time, does that mean the rest of us suck because we don't do that? lol I've
been on both sides of the fence just like you. When I was in high school a long time ago, I
was a jock. I was the loud, jerk kinda guy and sure, it worked in picking up women. It works
even now if all you want is sex. I've gotten over that part of my life and am now looking for
stability. Being a jerk or a loud ass muthafucka to get a women does not make for a good
stable relationship. That's just me. I could give a rat's ass what works for anyone else
because I'm not here to tell people what or what not to do with their life...ignorantly speaking
of course :roll:

[shanebone]

i agree with joseph, but women
can be stupid and go after tha asshole and they get treated like shit!!! ill stick with being
myself, nice!!!

[Gravity]

Like I said before... a lot of
people confuse conceit with confidence. Like... a lot of people think I'm conceited just
because I'm a strong woman. There is a line there... but a lot of people tend to miss
it.

A good example of the difference is... someone that's stuck on themselves might
treat you bad (of course)... but a confident person can treat you right... and still be secure in his
position... and still be an Alpha Male.

When you deal with conceited people you're
often dealing with insecure people that are just trying to make their uncertainties. So more than
likely... you'll end up with someone that's rather jealous and posessive. LOL... trust me...
I've dated plenty of conceited men. When you're younger it's hard to tell the difference. And
HOPEFULLY (not always) as we get older we start to see that there is a difference. And that a
man doesn't have to me an @ss to be a man. :-)

*~Peace and Blessings~*

[PoPo1999]

I gotta say, that $hit is on point in
my opinion. I agree with him. It makes sense.... In alot of cases, it just makes good old
biological/genetic sense in my opinion. That guy is sharp.

[élan]

^ lol


I
gotta agree with this...but also with Jai firstly. I think it varies alot with age, you grow to realize
that just because I guy makes a 'confident' first impression so to say, doesnt mean that he is
going to be a great catch. :P

I was reading an article kind of related to this, I'll have
to track it down. It basically stated that girls go for the 'jackasses' and the 'nice guys'
always finished that. Right now, I see that as true. The article said that girls want the really
nice guys as their friends, and don't wanna give them up, so they go for the jackasses... and
expect the nice guys to be there to let the girls cry on their shoulder. I
definately see that in high school, even with the girls who say
'oh I only like nice guys' and things like that. It's bullshit. They want the arrogant guy who
is gonna show them off and all that. Even looking at myself, I'm like that. Not so much to that
extreme. But my closest friends are the 'nice guy' type of males, and all the guys I've been
with are the arrogant jackass type.

[élan]

Thank you for sharing, elan.
:horny:

lol did i overspeak? :P

[élan]

:cry:

[br3mso3]

im not gunna read that shit
bitch


tell me what it says...

[~BayBeeLoQuIta~]

hi dia here i m!
my 2
cents:
i personally m attracted to guyz that r jerks (i kno ikno i cant help it) but i get turned
off by guyz that r cocky like me n my x would b fuckin around n hed alwayz be "wat do u like
about me?" "y do u like to kiss my lips?" (tryin 2 get me to point out that he had sexy ass lips) i
was alwayz like man shut the fuck up!

[Rick James]

Rick James is the cockiest nigga
here. Back when I shot my video "Superfreak" I boned every hoe on the set. Even that fat
ugly one that was gettin' all the food and shit for us. I mustta been high as hell to do that but
cocain is a hellova DRUG!!

[Joseph Orion]

so i thought sayin i would hit a girl would help but nope. she
says im weird. confusing as fuck...

It's because you're going
about this all wrong. Like it's a scene in a movie or something and you've got a script in front
of you. :P

[CobraIsTheBest]

yeah it's just like in that
movie

X-Men part 2

Jean Grey says something like this to Wolverine aka Logan
"girls flirt with the bad boy, but they marry the nice guy"

:twisted:

[Gravity]

I married a bad boy...

[Lyrikal Curse]

^^Thats A
Shocker^^.... :lol:

[luvBONE12]

wow...wut do ya know? the males are movin strong on their
mission to figure out the female species. will they ever manage to tap into those bold,
complicated minds of experts at the "good girl/bad girl" act and the oh so famous hard-to-get
tactics? they seem to believe that their hypothesis that women perfer "cocky" over "nice" has
checked out, but what will become of their "experimental" results once the ladies switch it up,
as they are so accustomed to doin? let's focus as these masculine homosapiens put their
heads together and share data on their attempts to figure out the answer to the universal
mystery, yet question: what do women want? this is getting interesting. perhaps during our
observations we can gather clues to answer the questions "what do
men want" and the one most of us have asked ourselves time
after time, "why do men act the way they do?" my experimental data thus far shows that the
answer to the latter lies along the lines of "partially as an attempt to get a girl" for some and
"'cause it's jus' in them" for the rest, mostly those who has already gotten the girl.


lol.....i don't know. don't mind me. y'all will never figure us
all out, but good luck. i will congradulate you on bein on the right
track on some of your analysis. real women prefer real men, meaning we like 'em natural. do
wut you do. we're all tryin to figure y'all out too. certainly the answer to "what do men want"
isn't as simple as "sex". y'all are complicated too. i'm sure you want more than that from life.
8)

[luvBONE12]

i want a girl with nice looks, period. :P

and a
good personality :wink:


why
that's jus' groovy.

i want a guy with a nice personality and a killer smile and who is
interested in me as a person, and i want a guy who is definately not afraid to let me know that
he appreciates me. i don't need to be spoiled with a lot of material things; i jus' wanna be
appreciated. love and appreciation -- that's not too much to ask, is it? 8)

[luvBONE12]

i want a guy with a nice personality and a killer smile
and who is interested in me as a person, and i want a guy who is definately not afraid to let me
know that he appreciates me. i don't need to be spoiled with a lot of material things; i jus'
wanna be appreciated. love and appreciation -- that's not too much to ask, is it?

_________________
^thats what i want from a women!!! luv bone is there more that
think like you!!!! lol


lol...well, i
don't know. i guess there could be other girls that think like me,
but i wouldn't know for sure. 8)

[§møkê¥]

lmao agree

[Floppy]

i know why girls like cocky guys


because they want those qualities in their offspring

they want strong willed children so they can be successful in this competitive world


they dont want a weak child



its all science

[ShiftBone]

you aint gotta be a matha fuckin asshole but you cant be a bitch either

[Floppy]

lol

[200 OK]

of course all women love cock

[Floppy]

no not ALL


ahem...


trust me iv seen them