Long Distance Relationships And Local Relationships

[Bone07]

Say if you had a girl (but not really your girlfriend) That lives hours away from you, and you keep in touch all the time, sometimes have convos sounding like you're together, and start developing feelings for her, and your start to feel you found the one. . .

But on the local area had another girl who wants to be in a serious relationship with you, but you're feelings aren't the same for her as hers are for you, but there are still some feelings there!!! Would you still go out with the local one even though you know your feelings aren't as strong. . .Or just tell her you don't feel the same way!!!

I'm just trying to get different opinions. .. I'm thinkin of going out with the local one. . .but since I told LD girl about that one, she starts calling me more, and wanting to talk to me, as if she wants me to be her man, and talking dirty, talking about cooking for me and shit lol!!!

I know LD relationships don't do well, but this girl is worth it, but I just don't have that transportation to be going 3 or 4 hours to go see her. . . .All I know Drama and stress is gonna start just now!!

[K.Battlezone]

Tell LD to come see you .. see what's up with her first in person . See if she's gonna do what she says she's gonna do for you when you actually are with her. For example if she says she gone be dirty with u or cook for you or whatever she's told you, you tell her , maynn you said this this and shit I ain't up with no games you awwreaddy kno there's another broad here. If you feel afterwards that LD is a better match for you then I suggest you go with LD. You never know unless you see it for yourself. You seem like you want a relationship and not just wanna fuck so that's always a good thing. If it don't work out don't fret. You're still young and there's plenty of fish in the sea.

[Pibb]

But on the local area had another girl who wants to be in a serious relationship with you, but you're feelings aren't the same for her as hers are for you, but there are still some feelings there!!! Would you still go out with the local one even though you know your feelings aren't as strong. . .Or just tell her you don't feel the same way!!!



if the local one is breakin bread and got some good pussy...stay with her until the other can move to you...or you move to her, whoever breaks first

[K.Battlezone]

^^^

[Chick-N-Bone]

long distance relationships suck

[RX King]

long distance relationships suck

My thoughts exactly

[Bone07]

Tell LD to come see you .. see what's up with her first in person . See if she's gonna do what she says she's gonna do for you when you actually are with her. For example if she says she gone be dirty with u or cook for you or whatever she's told you, you tell her , maynn you said this this and shit I ain't up with no games you awwreaddy kno there's another broad here. If you feel afterwards that LD is a better match for you then I suggest you go with LD. You never know unless you see it for yourself. You seem like you want a relationship and not just wanna fuck so that's always a good thing. If it don't work out don't fret. You're still young and there's plenty of fish in the sea.

Yeah I know what you mean!!! The LD is worthy of a relationships cause she don't play games, So I know she won't bullshit me, I met her like a year ago. I think she wants to be with me but can't cause of the distance, so she's holdin on to me

I think I might go with the local one for now (My LD is gonna be checkin up on me a lot, I know it), just to see if anything can happen. . .Cause she really still hasn't proved to me, on why I should "take" her. The LD one is always gonna be there, cause we're down like that. . . .She'll be there in the long run!!!

[Bone07]

if the local one is breakin bread and got some good pussy...stay with her until the other can move to you...or you move to her, whoever breaks first

Yeah the local one has a nice ass lol. . And her parents and the rest of her family know who I am, even before I met them . . ain't that some shiet, so I know she wanna hook up!!!

[The Great One]

Well without going into a whole huge story..........I met my current girlfriend in a chat room about 5 years ago. We were friends at first, then things got more and more serious and now we have been living together for the past year. If you feel like something is there.......I say go for it. Tell her you want to meet her and make it happen. You say shes about 3 or 4 hours away from you? Thats not so bad. If you dont have the transportation, maybe she can come see you? My girlfriend and I were about 10 hours away from each other. I would come down and visit her on the weekends.

I will say this tho about LD relationships......be careful. People can lie so easily online. Thats why its so important to meet her if you are serious about this. Also be prepared.....it takes alot of sacrifices if you want to maintain a LD relationship. If things got serious, one of you would have to eventually move.

As far as the local one goes, if you dont feel the same way about her as she does for you, dont go out with her. Either find someone local you do have feelings for or explore the LD relationship. Going out with the local one will just lead her on to believe you have feelings for her that arent that and thats just not right.

[Bone07]

I didn't meet her online. . I met her at college, but she moved after a year to go to another college!!

And Roger, I like how you think. . .but that's drama waiting to happen!!!

[Bone07]

Yeah it does bring excitement to life. . .My life hasn't had drama with females since last year!!!

[The Great One]

So if you guys been together already......why even mess with the local chick? Why not just find a way to be with the LD one since you know you got feelings for her and not the local one?

[Bone07]

I have feelings for both of them, but me having feelings for someone doesn't necessarily mean I wanna be with you, or Love you!! It could just be that I like having you around. . .but the local one is there. . .I'm most likely gonna go for her!! The LD one can wait. . she probably has someone over there and not telling me (cause she showed me a pic of some guy "friend". . .. so if a time comes where we do get together then great!! If Not. . then we'll still be friends!!!

Girls come and go anyways. . .what's the point of waiting for one, and the chance of survival may be slim. . . .I'll take my chances!!!

[ShyLoVe*]

it's totally up to you, you gotta decide what you really want and what you're willing to do to get it

you said up top that the LD girl was worth it, but now you're saying girls come and go. which is it? WHAT DO YOU WANT

[Bone07]

That's like my slogan towards girls!!! "Girls come and go, but the good ones are hard to let go"

The LD one is always gonna be there, whether we are together or not, I'm just saying I should just take my chances with the local since I know the LD one is gonna be there in the long run. . . I know the LD one is gonna check up on me, cause she's like that!! She's not a hater, she just wants what best for me. . .if she feels the local one will make me happy then she's happy for me!!! Which is why I like her. . See what I'm sayin' ShyLove?? ?

[K.Battlezone]

Here's my advice.


Keep doing what u doing with the local girl. Make LD take a trip and see what's up. Its not cheating really. Even if you do shit.. its just to "test the waters." Nothing wrong with that. Hey two nanis ain't nothin to cry bout.

[Bone07]

Yeah. . Im gonna take your advice!!! I'll probably talk to the local one later on today to see if she wanna do somethin'!!!

[The Great One]

But see to me it just seems like you like the LD girl more then the local one, but since the local one is there and the LD one is not, you are going to go for the local one. But theres nothing wrong with going out with the local one.......maybe you'll find out you got more feelings for her then the LD one anyways.

Dont make the mistake of thinking that the LD one will always be there tho. She may always be your friend, but eventually she'll find a guy there and what if shes the one that your meant to be with?

Thats why I say......go out with both and see for yourself who you have more feelings for and then go for that one.

[Bone07]

The LD one has had many boyfriends since I met her. . . and they've never lasted!!! Both of them have bad luck with men!!! And going out with both can result of losing both of them. . .and both of them know i'm not an "asshole" . .So why risk good friendship/relationships because I wanna be greedy.


It can be safe, I just have to reduce the amount of shit I say to the LD One for now!!

[miss distortion]

same guy for 3 years , long distance, i cant fallin love with anyone else near.....
i am a fool.

[K.Battlezone]

You ain't a fool. The dude just wasn't the one. Keep looking there's 6 billion people in the world. I'm sure out of those 6 billion there's a guy out there for you. I did that shit too kinda like what you did. Shit happens and you keep going. Keep your head up.


Bone07, good luck bro. You might need it. And a box of condoms hahahahaa.

[miss distortion]

thank you

[K.Battlezone]

No problem. :)

[Bone07]

You ain't a fool. The dude just wasn't the one. Keep looking there's 6 billion people in the world. I'm sure out of those 6 billion there's a guy out there for you. I did that shit too kinda like what you did. Shit happens and you keep going. Keep your head up.


Bone07, good luck bro. You might need it. And a box of condoms hahahahaa.

Yeah thankz, I know once I tap this local one, she gonna be like I Love You, Blah Blah. . . .Oh well, Time to stop talking and get down to biznaizzz

[K.Battlezone]

^^Bust it...*Juvenile Tone*

[The Great One]

Good luck bone07 :). Hope everything works out for ya

[K.Battlezone]

Shut up John, you want him to score and bring back pictures.

[The Great One]

Well in his case........I hope he does score

[K.Battlezone]

lmao

[Bone07]

I don't know about the picture part. . .maybe a mini movie lol!!! It's my B-day on Wednesday so i'm gonna see her for sure!! Hopefully she is in a giving mood!!

One day she gave me a ride home from work (not even a minute drive LOL) just cause she wanted to spend some times with me!!! So yeah, hopefully I score!!

[K.Battlezone]

Good luck.


Btw don't mind john aka the one , he's just a huge pervert.

[Harley Quinn]

But see to me it just seems like you like the LD girl more then the local one, but since the local one is there and the LD one is not, you are going to go for the local one. But theres nothing wrong with going out with the local one.......maybe you'll find out you got more feelings for her then the LD one anyways.

Dont make the mistake of thinking that the LD one will always be there tho. She may always be your friend, but eventually she'll find a guy there and what if shes the one that your meant to be with?

Thats why I say......go out with both and see for yourself who you have more feelings for and then go for that one.

I agree. If u like one better than the other stick with her. The LD one wont b there forever despite whatever she may say to u. Its a big deal and It would hurt to know ur trying to be with other people and some chicks r sensitive to that. She will leave u if she has to for her to be happy again and if thats with another guy, you've already missed ur chance. If u like LD more, stick with LD, cause it does seem like u want LD more but u wanna mess around already and ur being impatient and saying u want Local girl. I say u wait this one out till u think things over and really i mean really think about what u want the most and dedicate urself to whats most important to you. weigh ur options think the Pros and Cons and go for whatever seems right. It takes time and effort for LD relationships to work but if ur serious, its worth it. :)

=/ however, i dont agree that u should go out with both, simply talk to both and whichever u click with the most and u think that you'd be better off with take that one.

[The Great One]

=/ however, i dont agree that u should go out with both, simply talk to both and whichever u click with the most and u think that you'd be better off with take that one.

Yep.....thats kinda what i meant to say. Just spend time with each and see who you like the most and go for it. LD relationships are hard.....but that shouldnt be the determining factor in who you choose. The only thing that needs to be considered is who you like the most outta the two.

[The Great One]

Good luck.


Btw don't mind john aka the one , he's just a huge pervert.

Im not :)

[Bone07]

I agree. If u like one better than the other stick with her. The LD one wont b there forever despite whatever she may say to u. Its a big deal and It would hurt to know ur trying to be with other people and some chicks r sensitive to that. She will leave u if she has to for her to be happy again and if thats with another guy, you've already missed ur chance. If u like LD more, stick with LD, cause it does seem like u want LD more but u wanna mess around already and ur being impatient and saying u want Local girl. I say u wait this one out till u think things over and really i mean really think about what u want the most and dedicate urself to whats most important to you. weigh ur options think the Pros and Cons and go for whatever seems right. It takes time and effort for LD relationships to work but if ur serious, its worth it. :)

=/ however, i dont agree that u should go out with both, simply talk to both and whichever u click with the most and u think that you'd be better off with take that one.

Yeah I agree with that right there!!!