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Man this situation is fucked up let me explain, my wife and i have been seperated for 6 months it was always rocky but the final straw was her having an afair and abortin a child which she led me to believe was mine in reality she didn't know who's it was. Anyway now i've met this new bird it's nothing serious we fucked last night for the first time and she knows i don't want no lovey relationship. My wife asked me and i told her that i sorta have a girlfriend and she blew up now she's saying to forget my kids. She claims my kids are not my 1st priority and we should get back together but i told her my reasons for us being over. I have a right to move on to get laid what i gotta stay celebate man? What are ur opinions on my situation be real if u think i'm wrong tell it i appreciate truth.
hoopz
07-31-2005, 09:48 PM
fuck as many birds as u can.
ShyLoVe*
07-31-2005, 10:13 PM
I reckon, as long as you keep it good between Your Children and You, then it doesn't matter what she says, as long as you don't diss your wife to your children, that shit isn't fair, she's their Mother, they shouldn't be made to take sides.
At least try to keep things civil with your wife, for your children's sakes.
As for the "new bird", well, if you're not officially divorced, she has a right to feel a little upset about it, I know I would, it's kinda like breaking up with someone, the sooner they move on, it shows how much you meant to them(IMO). How did she find out about the other chick? Assuming you're definitely seperating you should've at least tried to keep it from her, to save you from this drama.
ThugQueen=)
08-01-2005, 12:26 AM
Man this situation is fucked up let me explain, my wife and i have been seperated for 6 months it was always rocky but the final straw was her having an afair and abortin a child which she led me to believe was mine in reality she didn't know who's it was. Anyway now i've met this new bird it's nothing serious we fucked last night for the first time and she knows i don't want no lovey relationship. My wife asked me and i told her that i sorta have a girlfriend and she blew up now she's saying to forget my kids. She claims my kids are not my 1st priority and we should get back together but i told her my reasons for us being over. I have a right to move on to get laid what i gotta stay celebate man? What are ur opinions on my situation be real if u think i'm wrong tell it i appreciate truth.
Why don't you make sure it's your kids??
and I think you don't have to be with her you do have the right to move and have fun and do your own thing there's no reason for yall to stay together if you don't love her or anything but you should also have a time for your kids spend time with them like on Saturdays or Sundays or whatever just Spend some of your time with them and I think she'll appreciate it..I guess...but there's no reason why she's being like that...unless she might still have feelings for you?!
K.Battlezone
08-01-2005, 06:17 AM
I agree with what shyluv said.
Mafioso
08-01-2005, 06:29 AM
don't let her run shit, check your kids, peace to you homie
*~Ruthless Ryda~*
08-01-2005, 04:04 PM
Oh man...I know something that happened almost exactly like this.
Honestly I think you shouldn't get back with your wife..and her excuse on using the children as a reason to be together is bullshit. You'd be only hurting the children in the future because the life you'd be living is a lie. She can't keep your kids away from you...and if she tried to take full custody in court it would be impossible just because you don't seem (that I know of) unfit father, she's the one that messed up not you. Which would make her look like the bad person and would give you more of an upper hand. Why drag the kids into a problem that only involves you and her mess. Like Begen said...just be there for the children..don't get them into both of your messes...don't go trying to make your wife the bad person (even though you know she is).
Trust me ya'll i try to be their for my boys i pay child support each month without hesitation, whenever she lets me see them i bath em feed em cahnge nappies take em to the park. I buy em clothes books toys whatever i can man i love em more than anything in this world. Today for instance my ex calls me and is like i need money for nappies and i'm like i gave $40 yesterday to buy some she says i bought james my youngest son medicine and wet wipes. I knew she was probably lying but i said ok i'll pick u up so i did and we went to the supermarket i ended up buying nappies milk and yoghurt. Mind u she's already been paid child support for this month and next month i'm just buying extra's for my boys cause shit their my kids and my responsibility, any way on the way home she starts u don't give a fuck about ur kids i'm going to court to get full custody and u'll never see them again. I'm so sick of that shit man let me tell u i'm trying to be civil to her 4 my boys sake but u know what she's an unappreciative bitch. Bout a month ago she told me she moving to greece and taking the kids so i went to court to put a block on the boys passport no fucking way is she taking em neway when she got served with the papers she's like i only said it to get to u i was never gonna go. Maybe i should just be the prick she claims i am then she can eat her own words. SORRY 4 the essay there's just so much going on in my head and life.
P.s no way i'm i getting back with my wife i stayed with her for the kids sake and all we did was fight no way am i gonna put my kids through that again i've learn't from that mistake. I try to be there for my boys as much as possible i grew up without a father and no way in hell am i not gonna be there for my sons. Ruthless ryda my eldest looks just like me no way in hell he ain't mine as for the youngest well he looks nothing like em My mum says he's just like i was for his age but to tell u the truth i'm to scared to get a dna done i'd rather not know it would to hard to deal with if he wasnt mine.
da og blazed
08-01-2005, 10:09 PM
don't tell the bitch you were with other women because if you do get back with her you don't her bringing them up....but I wouldn't get back with her because if you can't trust her, you will be miserable
Knuckles
08-01-2005, 10:11 PM
tell yo kids whats up n b coo wit ur kids
Nah man my boys are still toddlers they won't understand anyway even when their older i don't wanna talk bad bout their mother it's not fair 4 them neway they'll see it for themselves
da og blazed
08-01-2005, 10:17 PM
the biggest concern I would relate to is the mom marrying someone else and him replacing your role...it wouldn't matter if they saw you every other weekend or whatever...something that runs through your mind when you decide to call it quits
*~Ruthless Ryda~*
08-01-2005, 11:46 PM
^^ yeah when my parents divorced...just the thought of my mom trying to replace my dad would kill me. But I eventually got over it because I knew deep down that would never be possible no one could replace my dad as long as he was there for me which he was. Which mykl just has to do. My parents never got along...every conversation was always an argument. Mykl doesn't really have to be all buddy buddy with his ex wife but just don't argue in front of the kids...or like I said talk bad about her to the children. His kids are never going to want to replace him since hes always there for 'em.
Knuckles
08-02-2005, 02:59 PM
^^ word
b there 4 ur kids fuck what tha mom tryin 2 do
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