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Btnhfan012
08-01-2005, 04:03 AM
Ive always had it really easy with getting women And ive never been Attracted to just one girl at a time. Im always looking for a new fuck buddy even if i have 5 or 6 already. When i was in highschool i met the love of my life up to this time in my life. I went out with this girl for 3 and a half years and i know i loved her i still do love her. I was never faithful with the girl and i feel like the biggest asshole in the world. Even if i was away for her for more than 7 hours i would be thinking about having sex with another girl and sometime actually most of the time i prolly was. Now im sorta seeing this girl but its not official but i still have other fuck buddies that call me all the time and i still meet up with them. This weekend i was down in Springfield is Mass and i saw so many girls that i wanted to hook up with. Then i saw this Cute Blonde Girl Wearing this small ass Pink mini skirt and i couldnt resist myself i went up to her and started talking to her and eventually ended up taking her back to my parents mini van and nailed her right in the parking lot. There were so many girls there that i found attracted to of all different ethnicities and i just wanted to test all of them out. This is where i realized that i will never be a one woman guy. If i get married or more off when i get married i never want to cheat on my wife ever!!!!! But i dont know if this is gonna occur. Im only 19 and know im very young to be thinking about marriage or a long term relationship but theres this girl Kasey at my school who i like alot and i tried hooking up with her a bunch last year and ive been talking to her alot this summer and she told me that she wants to be with me and that makes me so happy but now i dont know if i want a relatioship with all the new freshman coming to Keene State College this year i dont know if im gonna be able to be with just kasey (not to mention kasey is one of those good girl virgins that told me she is ready for me to take her virginity) But i dont know if i could live with myself taking her virginity and not being able to stay with her wat should i do i need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ohh and the girl that im sorta dating rght now is going away to france for the year and she wants to be able to come back next summer and be with me!

Sorry for being so long@@@@@@@@

$kitzah
08-01-2005, 05:40 AM
straight pop the virgin mane!

K.Battlezone
08-01-2005, 06:28 AM
Let me tell you something. There's guys that do relationships and there's guys that don't and just fuck around. I got a friend just like you. Fucks a shitload of girls , has a gf already with a lil baby girl and he still fucks around. He ain't for that relationship deal. He says he loves her but if he did,why would he fuck anyone else ? I'm the type of dude that is made for relationships. I ain't gone fuck around if I'm in a relationship. I just don't I find it wrong. So my advice to you is.. stop trying to be someone that you're not. YOU do YOU. You be yourself and don't worry about what anyone thinks or says. If you gotta take some chics virginity that's what its gonna have to be. Sounds wrong I know but shit.. you gotta be you.

ShyLoVe*
08-01-2005, 02:55 PM
Let me tell you something. There's guys that do relationships and there's guys that don't and just fuck around. I got a friend just like you. Fucks a shitload of girls , has a gf already with a lil baby girl and he still fucks around. He ain't for that relationship deal. He says he loves her but if he did,why would he fuck anyone else ? I'm the type of dude that is made for relationships. I ain't gone fuck around if I'm in a relationship. I just don't I find it wrong. So my advice to you is.. stop trying to be someone that you're not. YOU do YOU. You be yourself and don't worry about what anyone thinks or says. If you gotta take some chics virginity that's what its gonna have to be. Sounds wrong I know but shit.. you gotta be you.
Good advice right there.

[I shall refrain from saying: "Typical male, always thinking with his penis"]

The way I see it. You're 19, you're hormones are crazy, you obviously haven't got the twitches of settling down.. yet.

One day, I reckon you'll want to, because just about all girls end up settling down and getting married. By the time you're 30 and realise that just being a fuck buddy isn't as satisfying as being in an actual relationship with someone who will ALWAYS be there, you would have been there, done that and you won't have the same urges (to just go bonk in a van). When you decide to settle down and even though it's the same girl, day in, day out... if you and her click, you won't want anyone else.

The girl who is a virgin... you know what you're like, and you know you're gonna hurt her, do you REALLY wanna hurt her? Is taking her virginity really worth it? She's never gonna forget you and unless she's a strong girl, she won't wanna leave, she'll get emotionally and physically attached to you. At the end of it, she'll either love you or hate you.

I've been cheated on, and it sux. I always think, was I THAT BAD? Am I a bad person? Am I not as beautiful, pretty, hot as he says I am? Then.. WHY? I seriously hate cheating. The person cheated on feels totally betrayed and their self confidence takes a serious plunge (well, speaking for myself).

I totally agree with Cesar, You do You. Guys do tend to mature later than girls, so just let it ride, and the moment you don't feel like messing around anymore, don't feel like it's the end of the world, you're just growing up!

To answer your question straight out, Will you ever be a one woman man?
Yes, if YOU decide to be. No one can make you, it's you who makes yourself change. We can say all these things, but you're the one in control of your thoughts, urges and life. You seem smart and know what you're doing. If you wanna keep doing it, it's totally up to you. It will happen when it happens.

K.Battlezone
08-01-2005, 06:22 PM
Btw ^^thanks for not saying toodles anymore around me..

ShyLoVe*
08-01-2005, 08:05 PM
=/ how random

stick to the topic Cesarrr

K.Battlezone
08-01-2005, 08:09 PM
I said what I had to say.. there's nothing much I can do but wait for this dude to post up some pictures of the chicks he does or maybe even a lil five minute clip of some big tittied chic showin off some tits for him.

ShyLoVe*
08-01-2005, 08:21 PM
I will say toodles if I want Cesar, now STFU about it! Read my sig bish!

You haven't forgotten my words of wisdom, now have you Cesar? ;-)

K.Battlezone
08-02-2005, 08:12 AM
Hit me up on aim .. i have no fuckin clue what you speak of.

btnhfan012, good luck home. Keep banging. :-D

Pibb
08-02-2005, 02:04 PM
straight pop the virgin mane!

thats what i would do, you better, it has to get popped sometime, so it make it ASAP...

but i'm the same way, i live with my daughter's mama, her sister, and their parents, but i still do my lil playa thang...it's hard cuz I get tired of the same pussy..or I just see some other bitch that I want to see naked, and being the type of person that has to get what they want, I got to get it. sometimes i wanna fucc my her sister cuz they twins, I try to get them both to do the threesome thing but I don't think its gonna happen...but i have fucced her sister in the past before the baby so w/e...I'm a still do my thang, cuz that one woman thang ain't what that is, I'm pretty sure any male in Dallas, TX knows what i'm sayin, cuz in this city its just so fuccin easy..pull a bitch, fucc that bitch in the theatre, the bathroom at McDonald's, in an empty room in the hospital, in the car, or get some head while riding the Titan at Six Flags, get some head on anything w/ DART on it...and of course theres always time to ducc off in the bacc of a store/mall or anything to fucc...shit anywhere..Dallas bitches are live & ready...so i can't help it

Knuckles
08-02-2005, 02:54 PM
^^ word

Btnhfan012
08-03-2005, 03:21 AM
Damn sounds like i need to get out to Dallas Son!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

$kitzah
08-03-2005, 07:58 AM
Let me tell you something. There's guys that do relationships and there's guys that don't and just fuck around. I got a friend just like you. Fucks a shitload of girls , has a gf already with a lil baby girl and he still fucks around. He ain't for that relationship deal. He says he loves her but if he did,why would he fuck anyone else ? I'm the type of dude that is made for relationships. I ain't gone fuck around if I'm in a relationship. I just don't I find it wrong. So my advice to you is.. stop trying to be someone that you're not. YOU do YOU. You be yourself and don't worry about what anyone thinks or says. If you gotta take some chics virginity that's what its gonna have to be. Sounds wrong I know but shit.. you gotta be you.

thats sum real shit, i agree with that, im the relationship man too, as you already know Cesarrrrr Salad....i used too be like this fella though, used to fuck around with so many girl, i dun lost count....then i met my girl n all that changed, and im happy as hell, more then a year n a half n we still going strong!