I knew I loved you before I met you..

[ShyLoVe*]

That's the title of a song sung by Savage Garden. Now I'm not sure if you guys know them, but this song's sweet. It's just a short song, but the chorus goes:

"I knew I loved you before I met you
I think I dreamed you into life
I knew I loved you before I met you
I have been waiting all my life "

Now, what I want to know, do you think you could actually love someone before you meet them, before you know their name? What kind of love you ask? Whatever love you think could possibly exist before even meeting a person. I know it's kinda Hollywood, and you'll probably say something like "you're insane! real life is nothing like the movies!".. but I think it's possible and it happens! Yes, in the real world! Love is what makes life worth living, even with the downs and dramas. :)

[$kitzah]

these yankee's wont know this, well most of em wont....and no, i think thats aload of shit, no offence too you though but yeh, i think this why.....because why would you love someone if you have only seen their appearence and not their actual personality?

.....read my comment all, and it will end this thread.

[Misslaydee510]

i LOVE that sOng!

[ShyLoVe*]

these yankee's wont know this, well most of em wont....and no, i think thats aload of shit, no offence too you though but yeh, i think this why.....because why would you love someone if you have only seen their appearence and not their actual personality?

.....read my comment all, and it will end this thread.
umm... ok.... do you have to be so harsh? "read my comment all, and it will end this thread" I wanted to see people's views and comments, that didn't mean, I wanna see who would bash this thread the most and make me close it. :smt012 I don't want that out of any thread in here. Next time, be more considerate, ok. This isn't pointless, thanks.

I see where you're getting at though... but sometimes... you can tell a person's personality by the way they interact with other people, how they treat the people around them and just the aura they project.

I will admit, this has happened to me, I didn't know their name, never spoke to them, but there was something about them I really liked. I was just so drawn towards that person, I wasn't sure if it was just me who was feeling this. The person wasn't the best looking person in the world, but the person was irresistable to watch and admire. I got to know that person, and we got along extremely well, my gut feeling was right.

So from my own experience, I would say it's real and it happens.

[Knuckles]

i heard of em

pretty good group

[The Great One]

From my own experience, you can definitely love someone without first seeing them. I knew my girlfriend for 5 years before I even saw what she looked like. I guess what drawn me in was her wonderful personality. At first, I didnt really wanna believe it cause im thinking to myself "comeon how on earth can u love this person, you dont even know what she looked like"......then i found myself talking to her more and more and more...talking for hours upon hours.....all night long. Then I started to think......well i dont know what this is actually but its definitely alot deeper then a friendship. The more and more we talked, the deeper feelings got.

I think seeing a person physically is just one aspect of a relationship......not something relationships are 100% based upon (or well they shouldnt be anyways). So you can definitely love someone before u see them.

[Knuckles]

From my own experience, you can definitely love someone without first seeing them. I knew my girlfriend for 5 years before I even saw what she looked like. I guess what drawn me in was her wonderful personality. At first, I didnt really wanna believe it cause im thinking to myself "comeon how on earth can u love this person, you dont even know what she looked like"......then i found myself talking to her more and more and more...talking for hours upon hours.....all night long. Then I started to think......well i dont know what this is actually but its definitely alot deeper then a friendship. The more and more we talked, the deeper feelings got.

I think seeing a person physically is just one aspect of a relationship......not something relationships are 100% based upon (or well they shouldnt be anyways). So you can definitely love someone before u see them.


dude ...im in tha same situation...knew her bout a year n hittin 2 months anniv 2morrow

[$kitzah]

umm... ok.... do you have to be so harsh? "read my comment all, and it will end this thread" I wanted to see people's views and comments, that didn't mean, I wanna see who would bash this thread the most and make me close it. :smt012 I don't want that out of any thread in here. Next time, be more considerate, ok. This isn't pointless, thanks.

I see where you're getting at though... but sometimes... you can tell a person's personality by the way they interact with other people, how they treat the people around them and just the aura they project.

I will admit, this has happened to me, I didn't know their name, never spoke to them, but there was something about them I really liked. I was just so drawn towards that person, I wasn't sure if it was just me who was feeling this. The person wasn't the best looking person in the world, but the person was irresistable to watch and admire. I got to know that person, and we got along extremely well, my gut feeling was right.

So from my own experience, I would say it's real and it happens.

lol dont get so mad, i wasnt being harsh but honestly thats some straight bullsh*t, why....read my first post haha!

[Mo-Puc-Thug]

this thread is sad, so so sad :rolleyes:

[ShyLoVe*]

ya know, it could also mean platonic love. have you ever thought of that?

[$kitzah]

^i dont even no what that means, but if i did i still would say....NO!

[K.Battlezone]

It isn't possible. John I don't think that is what she meant.


Now, what I want to know, do you think you could actually love someone before you meet them, before you know their name?

^^ See that ? No its not possible. And neither is love at first sight. Put down your romance novels and get back in the kitchen. Sorry to come off as an asshole but these things are about as believable as fat chics actually thinking that the romance novels that they read will come through and that fag Fabio from " I can't believe its not butter" is gonna come in a unicorn is gonna pick em up and take em away to bang em..

The unicorn can't withstand a fat girl for starters... I'd keep going but girls would get pissed..

[da og blazed]

It isn't possible. John I don't think that is what she meant.


Now, what I want to know, do you think you could actually love someone before you meet them, before you know their name?

^^ See that ? No its not possible. And neither is love at first sight. Put down your romance novels and get back in the kitchen. Sorry to come off as an asshole but these things are about as believable as fat chics actually thinking that the romance novels that they read will come through and that fag Fabio from " I can't believe its not butter" is gonna come in a unicorn is gonna pick em up and take em away to bang em..

The unicorn can't withstand a fat girl for starters... I'd keep going but girls would get pissed..


:rofl:

[The Great One]

It isn't possible. John I don't think that is what she meant.


Now, what I want to know, do you think you could actually love someone before you meet them, before you know their name?

^^ See that ? No its not possible. And neither is love at first sight. Put down your romance novels and get back in the kitchen. Sorry to come off as an asshole but these things are about as believable as fat chics actually thinking that the romance novels that they read will come through and that fag Fabio from " I can't believe its not butter" is gonna come in a unicorn is gonna pick em up and take em away to bang em..

The unicorn can't withstand a fat girl for starters... I'd keep going but girls would get pissed..

Ahh...now im confused. Maybe I misinterpreted what she meant but I dont think so. Shes asking can you love someone before you meet them, before you know their name......

If you talk to that person and get to know them....then YES......you can...least I feel that way anyways.


If shes just meaning can u see someone on tv and fall in love with them...then NO...of course you cant IMO.

Do we have one of those confused emotions.....cause i need one now lol
:confused: there we go lol

[ShyLoVe*]

actually, I didn't mean anything in particular

I wanted you to interpret it any way you possibly can.

[The Great One]

oh ok.

Then in that case, I interpret it as can you fall in love without actually meeting them first and i say yes you can.

Hey begen :)

[ShyLoVe*]

hey John! how are you? I'm glad there's one other person on here that believes in love!

[The Great One]

Im doing pretty good........busy as hell with work and all but pretty good :)

Yeah......just from how my situation has gone with my current relationship.....i definitely believe you can fall in love before meeting.

I think tho for most people, love is something you need to experience to believe in it if that makes any sense. I mean if you've never been in love with anyone, its hard to believe you could fall for someone u havent met. But anyone who has truely been in love before and know whats important in relationships, I would think can believe.

[ShyLoVe*]

Yup! I agree

How are things with the GF and kids? Have you done that phone exam yet? I applied for Uni and all I have to do is wait, I hope I get in! =(

[K®åz΀_K‡LLåH™]

i believe in that also, i believe in love and fate, i found alot of quality when i met my girlfriend before i even knew her, i just looked at her face and something inside of me was enlighten....

[The Great One]

Yup! I agree

How are things with the GF and kids? Have you done that phone exam yet? I applied for Uni and all I have to do is wait, I hope I get in! =(

omg yeah...i had to go to cincinatti, ohio to go through the whole assessment process (interview, phone assessment and accounting test)....anyways they put me in the highly qualified category. They give jobs to the superior people first, then highly qualified and then qualified. But since im putting in for most places up and down the coast whereas some people are just putting in for one specific place, i think my chances of landing a job is much better. Now i just gotta keep checking the site and whenever new places come up, put applications in to each of them.

It was kinda intimiting going to cincy....i was one of 7 ppl and all the other ppl were old and had their cpa licenses and been working for years. I was like how in the world am i gonna be able to compete with all this....but i guess i got a good rating...im not sure what the others got tho.

When do u find out about whether or not you got accepted to Uni? Lemme know whenever ya find out.

Oh god...im at work and better go before i get caught on here lol :biggrin:

[$kitzah]

hey John! how are you? I'm glad there's one other person on here that believes in love!

not once did i say i never believed in LOVE.....silly women.

[ShyLoVe*]

shut up skitzah, you're ruining my thread

[Twilight]

Shylove you should have NOT believe in love at first sight, what's the catch?

[$kitzah]

shut up skitzah, you're ruining my thread

im gonna have to quote cesar on this one....

"Bitch shut up i'm tryin to have a moment"

[Knuckles]

whats love got 2 do wit it?

[$kitzah]

^nothing, not at first sight anyway....you just thinkin about pounding him/her.

[K.Battlezone]

^exactly

[Curiosity87]

I think the song is about when you have figured out who Mr. or Mrs. Right is and the second you meet them, you know its them, and you've been loving them forever already, becauase it's destiny.

[Knuckles]

^nothing, not at first sight anyway....you just thinkin about pounding him/her.exactly

tis y i said it

[Bee]

I honestly don't think you could love someone without knowing them
I don't think its possible
i think theres lust at first sight
infatuation
but not love....
I kinda think people are destined to be together, lol, like its meant to be, and your gonna fall in love with them and they're gonna love you, and its gonna be hard and it will hurt on the way to it, but its gonna happen. thats just what I think. I think when you have to work for it, it makes love so much better and sweeter because it's like a reward
and im pointlessly babbling

[The Great One]

I honestly don't think you could love someone without knowing them
I don't think its possible
i think theres lust at first sight
infatuation
but not love....
I kinda think people are destined to be together, lol, like its meant to be, and your gonna fall in love with them and they're gonna love you, and its gonna be hard and it will hurt on the way to it, but its gonna happen. thats just what I think. I think when you have to work for it, it makes love so much better and sweeter because it's like a reward
and im pointlessly babbling

I agree. You cant love someone without KNOWING them, but I definitely believe you can love someone without MEETING them.

And I also agree with the part about it be rewarding because its something that you work so hard on. In my situation, to be in love with someone I have not met, it was very hard. However, once we did meet, it was one of the greatest days of my life and from there its been very sweet and rewarding :biggrin:

[ShyLoVe*]

I think the way you guys interpreted the way I was/am thinking of the line is too black and white.

The way I interpret the line; you know there is someone out there you will love, you know you love them, you live in hope of finding that person, you just haven't crossed paths yet... or have you. I'm looking at it deeper than, "I haven't met that person, I've only seen them, so it's just lust right now", that's not how I'm thinking.

I think I've explained it right.

[Curiosity87]

I don't think that you completely understand the meaning behind my words.

[ShyLoVe*]

I wasn't even basing my post on what you said, I don't even know what you said.

[Curiosity87]

Oh no, I'm sorry I wasn't talking about your post, the problem was that I missed the quote that I was using. Sorry about that, I'm just getting used to all the things that you can do when you post, and I'm sorry for the miscommunication.

[ShyLoVe*]

oh, it's ok :)

[Curiosity87]

:) .

[$kitzah]

wow this thread is old

[nicky G]

i believe the meaning of that song

[Curiosity87]

yeah i do to