Parents are divorcing and selling the house.

[Matua]

It is a long process. My parents have argued for months. There were times where they would not talk to each other. Problems were not resolved, so it just magnified. Just wake up, shower, go to work, come back, eat and sleep. Wake up and do it again.

Today, they were discussing the house payment and they were short.

Just like that. Only they have threatened to divorce before, but this time I think it will go through. They were married before I was born and it is sad to see my 15 year old sister to experience this.

Divorce is never a good thing. I need to focus on my life and move forward. I love both my parents and my family. I wish that things worked out better.

[RRJ]

Have your parents ever gone to marrige counseling?

[rpc145]

Man I'm sorry to hear that.

[CACACUNT]

im going through the same thing my parents told me on monday theyre getting divorced

[$kitzah]

damn, shit happens man, if things dont work out, its never best to stay.

[RRJ]

I've said it all along, marrige is un-natural.

[mykl]

Man either way if they divorce u gotta realise that it's their lives not about u or ur sister. They still love u the same but they could be together nemore explain this to ur younger sister.

[Knuckles]

if he aint no punk...holla we want prenup..

hope things get better

[NNUTTHOWZE]

It probably wont fuck your sister up as much as it did to me, since i was 8. She's abit older and can understand whats going on better than I did.

It messes you up....in alot of ways.

[Gravity]

Sorry to hear that hun. :-( I was 10 when my parents separated, but... because things were so bad around there it didn't really bother me much at all. Oddly enough things were actually better after my dad left.

But like has already been said, you and your sister should both realize that its a problem between the two of them, and its not about you guys. Either way, I know its never fun for anyone of any age to watch their parents have problems. But I hope things work out for the best for you and your family.

*~Peace and Blessings~*

[jhighfootball04]

my parents seperated when i was about 3 months old. my dad had a drinking problem and i didnt see him until i was about 11. they tried to get back together but that didnt really work out actually made things worse. but now i live with my dad b/c my mom got remarried to an asshole. plus my dad is a cool guy gives me whatever i want i guess he's tryin to make up for all that time he wasnt there

[Mo-Puc-Thug]

:laughing: yeash i love da u have to "let it go"

[The Great One]

Im sorry to hear that.

They say 50% of marriages end in divorce so its not surprising that alot of people on the board have gone through the same exact thing. My parents divorced a couple of years ago. Its sad and hurts for awhile, but after awhile you and you're sister will realize that its best if they were fighting alot to do this.

[Mouse]

It probably wont fuck your sister up as much as it did to me, since i was 8. She's abit older and can understand whats going on better than I did.



I dunno about that...I was either 7 or 8 when my parents split, and it didn't mess me up any. But maybe thats because they can still stand to be around eachother. I'd think it would be more traumitizing on someone who is just turning teenage (like 12-16). Than it would be a lil kid, who doesn't know WTF is going on. Knowing something is sometimes worse than not knowing something.

[musclementality]

marriage is the #1 cause of divorce