Your boyfriend/husband going to strip clubs

[ShyLoVe*]

How do YOU personally feel about your boyfriend/husband going to strip clubs aka nudie bars without you and with mates?

Ladies, just curious to know how you feel about them. :redface:

[Silent Killa]

How do YOU personally feel about your boyfriend/husband going to strip clubs aka nudie bars without you and with mates?

I don't need permission from no one to go to strip clubs :tongue:

[$kitzah]

yeh i go occasionally when my mates wanna be funny cunts, but i think they aint that great personally, i mean who needs to pay for that, when you can go to the club n get the same thing, pick up girls, go home with em.....aint that difficult, well for some it is but yeh.

[KrayzieRoach]

dont worry about guys going to the strip clubs,when me and my mates go we just sit down and chill,and all the other guys are doing the same thing if they arent getting lapdances or not too drunk

[Gravity]

When I was younger it wouldn't have bothered me. I've been to them before, they're no big deal. Nothing special.

So... I have mixed feelings about it. Though I don't really think it's a big deal if a guy goes to one..... looking at my age group now (and the age group of the guys I would typically date) I'd question their reasoning for going. Young guys.... I don't know... I just figure that's kind of typical for them to end up at one every now and then. But when you reach 24, 25 and up.... I'm going to wonder about him.

And if a guy of any age is going aaaaaaallll the time I'd wonder about that too.

To me its the same with clubs in general. Once you reach a certain age I think there's an issue if you're still a club or bar rat.

But if at the age of 21 or 23 my boyfriend said he was going to a strip club with his guy friends, I wouldn't have thought anything of it. But even back then, if a guy I was dating was always at the club with his friends without me (with or without naked women around) there would be a problem. Guys typically go to clubs for different reasons than women. But if its not typical behavior I wouldn't really worry about it.

[Mista Skelah]

stripper whores have stds id have to hang out with the stripper for awhile seeing how clean she is and her morals to see if shes worth banging <and yes that does kinda defeat the purpose of banging a stripper.

[The Architect]

..i can just stay home and have my gf give me lap dances and then some...

[Gambinos Wrath]

Well, I like to use them as a pub, as I go drinking with mates, and rather then look at all the other dicks who drink at pubs, I go to the nudie bar. Drinks are the same amount as at pubs, you can play pool while nude chicks walk around you, Im a little worried that alot of you seem to equate a strip club with a brothel, as that doesnt happen over here. I also tip if I think the chick has done a good dance, if she just struts around sticking her jugs out, well it aint that great, but if she is swinging around that pole, doing headstands and kissing the ground while doing it, and all that sort of stuff, then she deserves a tip for putting the effort in

[da og blazed]

^well said

I love beer and seeing naked women, where's the harm in that?

[Bee]

I can understand why I can't go, because hes of age...and im not. but if I WAS, then I would be kinda bothered as to why he didn't want me to come, but to me its not something to argue about.

if he wants to cheat on me...he can do it anywhere

[Gambinos Wrath]

YOU CANT CHEAT AT STRIPCLUBS, jesus christ, I wonder about the stupidity on here, if u can fuck a stripper, then it isnt a nudie bar anymore, its something more, all I do is drink, play pool and tip if I think they dance good, I have actually gotten in trouble cause I didnt wanna tip this chick, and told her I was just there to drink, we dont go to cheat, wouldnt it be easier just to go to a brothel if we were, its that same as when u guy go to a spa, its to relax, we go there to relax and drink

[ShyLoVe*]

yeah but we're not groping other people's private parts at a spa

[Liverspots]

day spa = brothel here

[ShyLoVe*]

here, spa = place where you get facials, back massage, foot massage etc

[Liverspots]

lol yeah i mean here they are often fronts for brothels, they get shut down everyday and a new one comes up the same day, we have a whoring problem

[ShyLoVe*]

=/ no wonder you guys have endless shows like Ricki Lake and Jerry Springer

[Misslaydee510]

i woould not tolerate that shit for one fucking minute.

[Gambinos Wrath]

IM not gropiong either, as I understand it from ppl at work who have gone to ones overseas, OURS are very tame

[ShyLoVe*]

=/ still hate you going to them, take me there

[Silent Killa]

=/ still hate you going to them, take me there

anybody remember the Married With Children episode where Peg and the other wives get mad at Al and the other guys for going to the Nudie Bar and the wives asked them to take them and the guys decide to take them on "A-cup night?" lol

[Gravity]

ILOL @ Jai saying she'd have no problem with a 23 yr old going but not a 24 yr old. I know what you mean, but I always find it silly when someone makes a difference between such a close gap. Like when you tell someone your age (lets say you say you're 18) and they says something like "really? I thought you looked about 17" I mean really whats the difference?

If you said something like I wouldnt mind if someone 23 went, but once you get up there like 28 and up then I start to question it, it would make more sense

Well, by the time we graduate from college (typically) we're around the age of 23. And around that age most people should have done all of their partying. I agree it does depend on the individual but I am just speaking more generally.

By the time I was 21 I was tired of clubs, so I went to bars. (lol) But by the time I was 23 I was about sick of that too. It plays out after awhile. Not to say I never go, but it really does get old. And its rare that I go now, and I usually end up at any club by "force". LOL... my friends start clubbing a few years later than I did.

And YES.... lol... the "thrill" really does die that fast. And if it doesn't, I'd personally question where that person's head is at.

[NNUTTHOWZE]

If you touch a stripper, you get thrown out. There's no groping involved Bee.

[K.Battlezone]

anybody remember the Married With Children episode where Peg and the other wives get mad at Al and the other guys for going to the Nudie Bar and the wives asked them to take them and the guys decide to take them on "A-cup night?" lol


:rofl:

[ShyLoVe*]

but going out to see other women dancing naked and maybe groping them if you tip them or getting a lap dance and going for peep shows, doesn't exactly help with the girlfriend's self esteem, especially if she already has some self esteem issues

[da og blazed]

anybody remember the Married With Children episode where Peg and the other wives get mad at Al and the other guys for going to the Nudie Bar and the wives asked them to take them and the guys decide to take them on "A-cup night?" lol


lmao that shit was funny

If you touch a stripper, you get thrown out. There's no groping involved Bee.


unless the stripper lets u touch her and I would say about half of all lap dances I've gotten, the stripper let me touch her

[Lil_KBone187]

i don't even fuck wit titty bars on the real.....i mean shit why go there when my girl can do the same shit at home for me and i don't gotta spend a damn dime.......krayzie and uncle luke told y'all "I AIN'T SPENDIN NUTHIN!!!!"

[Gravity]

but going out to see other women dancing naked and maybe groping them if you tip them or getting a lap dance and going for peep shows, doesn't exactly help with the girlfriend's self esteem, especially if she already has some self esteem issues

Why not go with him?

But really... everyone is different. So if the girlfriend is that uncomfortable with the idea maybe they should have a talk about it. How it makes her feel vs. how important it is to him.

As far as the touching and the lapdance, if he's in a relationship even at a club the same rules apply... "look but don't touch". LOL... although in a relationship there is a "don't look too long" rule. :confused:

[ShyLoVe*]

lol

yeah... we talked about it, and we "plan" on going together one night. We'll see how things go

I never asked him what meant more, going to stripclubs and making me unhappy or our relationship and keeping things rosey

[scrilla21]

Damn there is so much touched in this thread!!

where I'm from the legit strip clubs fo women(male dancers) are worst than the legit strip clubs men go too!! I've heard of male stripper climbin into the women clothes wit her still in them and shit like that( that's why my aunt stopped going)! Women are savages at the stripp club!They can grab yo shit and all that!

Now the strip clubs fo men, round here, you can ony touch there back and shoulders when they give you a lapdance. and I think you can rub there ass,but you can't slap it. I slapped one on her ass, she didn't care but management did! And this girl was on stage I smacked her ass wit a dollar and the record damn near stopped!!!(like when you do something wrong) We do got a few bars that have a stripper night! Those are the ones that women should watch out fo! They got nasty hoes in them shits that suck and fuck any one that they got they money right. I went to one once and left a lil while in to the show.

I would have no problem wit my girl comming to the stip club wit me, but I don't think I would like her to go to see some male dancers just cuz of the lack of rules about touching! I know women that go to these things and I know some of the women that have set up these shows and I just don't think I would like it just from what I've heard.

Oh and the closest desent Strip club down here don't even sell beer!! Ain't that some shit? Now if you go to the city it'll be different!

I have actually gotten in trouble cause I didnt wanna tip this chick, and told her I was just there to drink, we dont go to cheat
LOl @^^

This stripper jump at one of my boys cuz he walked up to her, while she was on stage, and then walk away w/o tippin her!!Shit was hilarious but it ruin the night fo a min. Cuz all the strippers was mad at him. Yeah usually we just got to have a good time wit our homies and have a few laughs. If we wanted to cheat it would be much easier at a club........not to mention cheaper.


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Originally Posted by Mister Mike
ILOL @ Jai saying she'd have no problem with a 23 yr old going but not a 24 yr old. I know what you mean, but I always find it silly when someone makes a difference between such a close gap. Like when you tell someone your age (lets say you say you're 18) and they says something like "really? I thought you looked about 17" I mean really whats the difference?

If you said something like I wouldnt mind if someone 23 went, but once you get up there like 28 and up then I start to question it, it would make more sense


Originally Posted by Jai Dot
Well, by the time we graduate from college (typically) we're around the age of 23. And around that age most people should have done all of their partying. I agree it does depend on the individual but I am just speaking more generally.

By the time I was 21 I was tired of clubs, so I went to bars. (lol) But by the time I was 23 I was about sick of that too. It plays out after awhile. Not to say I never go, but it really does get old. And its rare that I go now, and I usually end up at any club by "force". LOL... my friends start clubbing a few years later than I did.

And YES.... lol... the "thrill" really does die that fast. And if it doesn't, I'd personally question where that person's head is at.


I feel you on that one! I started goin to clubs when I was 21. I went so much that it got real boring. cuz you done it all ready and now your tired of it! By the time I was 23 I slowed down alot. It get borin real fast like you said. But it is fun watch how hard dudes be tryin to get at some of these girls. We just sit back and laugh!I'm 24 now and I rarely go to the club anymore. focus is elsewhere now! got plans and shit ...u know?


lol

yeah... we talked about it, and we "plan" on going together one night. We'll see how things go Yeah go wit him! you'll be suprised!

And to the men!! If you go to a strip club try to find a shy lesbian! Cuz they will pay fo everything! THey'll give you money to tip the girls they like, and even will get you a lapdance or two! Trust me!! :thumbup:

[Gambinos Wrath]

lmao, I actually thought about this thread some more while at work(my job gets boring like that sometimes) and I came up with this.

I go to relax, There you are the man, the king, they do what you want pretty much, NO whining, No whinging, no telling you about ur day, you can just sit back, relax, have a few beers, a few laughs with ur friends, maybe play some pool, and you dont really have to deal with anyone on a personal level, its just u and some random chicks who are nekkid, and providing u with entertainment.

And you dont even have to talk if u dont want to, just a nod, or something like that, they understand pretty quickly if u dont wanna spend anymoney, ur just there for drinks, basically for guys u are the man there, thats why we like it, I have also seen female ones, there fucked up, you guys grope, grab etc, and the guys arent gonna complain, chicks sucking them off, and THERE getting paid

[Gravity]

lol@scrilla

I hope everything works out well Shylove*.

When I was like 19 I would go to this club that had strippers every now and then just because it was something entirely new to me. LOL.... and there were just somethings so funny about. It started because one of my friend took me to this all male gay bar. LOL.... a new experience. And it was cool because you could dance with guys without them trying to hump you. And that night I found out they had strippers there (most of which turned out to be straight which seemed pissed of guys when they tried to talk to them later). LOL... it was funny to see guys like.... all excited over other guys and like little girls. One night I didn't want to go by myself so I dragged this male heterosexual friend with me there. LOL... and I like held his hand the entire time so he'd know that he was safe. LOL... and in return I promised that I'd go to a girly bar with him.

And that's the odd thing about hanging out with guys. LOL.... I was dragged to a couple of them. The first time I almost freaked out, because I didn't know WHAT KIND of place I was going to. (LOL) I ended up getting a lapdance on stage from one of the waiters. LOL.... it was interesting.

LOL.... I'm sure you'll have an interesting time if nothing else. :-)

[Gravity]

I have also seen female ones, there fucked up, you guys grope, grab etc, and the guys arent gonna complain, chicks sucking them off, and THERE getting paid

LOL.... I've never seen anything like that. But that does remind me of the guys at the gay club. LOL.... one of the strippers almost beat a guy up for that. LOL... it was hilarious. There were a couple of guys there that didn't seem to mind though. =-/

Personally I think the reason there are no touching rules at male clubs and there don't seem to be the same ones at female clubs is because some men get REALLY out of hand, and can do more damage that a woman could! I was at a private party a long time ago that had male and female strippers there. LOL.... let's just say I didn't stay very long. There weren't any rules about touching, and things went a little too weird for me. LOL

[flybunny]

I go with my man.
He prefers to go with me and watch me get a lap dance instead of him.

[K®åz΀_K‡LLåH™]

hahaha^^^ yea that sounds way better then a guy getting one

[CuttenHeadz]

well if IMMMM goin to strip bar wit my homies im jus looken nah mean..get a few drinks...so wen i get home....im fin' to tear dat pussy up na mean

[200 OK]

Going to strip clubs and stuff like that, it's more of a psychological problem. Not there is anything wrong with going to strip club, but if you have a girlfriend/wife. I think it's a bit inappropriate. There is limits to everything, it's okay if you go everyonce in a while, but if you constantly go. Then I don't really know what to say, it just depends from people. I never really go to strip clubs. I just get nothing from it. I remember when I was younger I used to be like ooh, let's go to a strip club, naked ladies, blah, blah... As for the guys saying they go to strip clubs to relax. I don't know I have never heard of that. You can do many other things to relax. I think it's more of an excuse. I don't go to strip clubs or clubs in general. I got bigger and better things to look forward too. I am passed that stage :).

[Gambinos Wrath]

Ok, that could be a case, but isnt it healtheir then those who Smoke to relax, or drink to oblivion to relax, its just s different way of relaxing then veging out in front of the tv, meh, Im not going anymore, past that stage now

[ShyLoVe*]

uh huh, ok, if you SAY so Gambino, you got over strip clubs in the 3 days since you said you liked to go there to relax and a week or so ago you were all for strip clubs

[The Great One]

I think most women would have issues with their boyfriend/husband going to strip clubs. My opinion on it is I guess theres not really any harm with them if your gf was cool with it. Some women are ok with it I guess.....id think most tho would not be.

I think most guys look at it as a way to relax.....just hang out. But there are a ton of places you can do the same thing and not upset your significant other. I guess what im saying is......if the woman is against it, why go? If it's upsetting to them, why do it? Theres a million other things you can do.

I got an agreement with my girlfriend. Basically if something is upsetting to one of us, then the other tries to stop doing whatever they are doing thats upsetting. For example, to me I see no harm in going to them, but if my gf was upset that I would go, then I wouldnt do it. Its not because I think its wrong, but because I know its upsetting to the person I love, therefore I wouldnt do it. She in turn does the same thing. Why do something to upset the person u love?

[flybunny]

I'd rather my boyfriend go to a strip club then an actual nightclub, without me.

[musclementality]

i think it depends on how it affects the mate staying home. if it offends, dont do it, if not, enjoy. its just scenic like going to the Grand Canyon. it beats cheating