Srsly asked question

[Doctor Cox]

Do you think its right that two people, whom claim to love eachother, demand that the partner remains totally socially isolated from the opposite sex outside of one another?

Like if I were to help a friend out and be there for them countless times and my intentions are clear of being solely as a friend. However suddenly they dont talk to me anymore because they arent "allowed" to. Would they be the bigger douchebag? Or would the partner whom feels the need to control his/her partners interactions with the opposite sex, rather than being the intellectual in the scenario and saying "STOP THIS HOGSHIT THIS DOESNT MAKE SENSE!!"?

My opinion is neither because relationships dont reside on a foundation of trust, just looking towards the future, dreams, and "marriage" is good enough, even though if you cant trust one another you will never get your relationship to be actually healthy. That would make even the prospect of marriage a bad joke and you will split up anyway after 15 years when you are dried up and with 4 kids because you realize you could never stand one-a-fucking-nother anyway.


Do share. Hi Eric. Love you. You too foreplay.

[seeking]

Good thread, the way I see it is people should be hable to have friends from the opposite sex but if they talking to these people about things they either can't or don't want to talk about with their partner then that's a problem and the bf or gf has the right to ask the person to stop talking to that person. And the person with the friend who they talk to should abide by that out of respect to their bf/gf

When ur in a serious relationship ur partner should be ur best friend
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[Forte]

How funny I'm kinda dealing with said situation right now, luckily I only know them through the Internet ;)

But seriously, that's bullshit and totally insecure that a guy or girl would do that to a partner. It shows there is no love there, because there is no trust. The person being restricted needs to realize this and dump the price of shit causing this to be a problem. Freedom and trust ftw thanks
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[Gonzo]

Like if I were to help a friend out and be there for them countless times and my intentions are clear of being solely as a friend. However suddenly they dont talk to me anymore because they arent "allowed" to. Would they be the bigger douchebag?

they are being douchebags... if a partner is controlling the other partner in such a way out of fear that they will leave them... then they have a lot of issues and should not be with each other in the first place

question: is "smileznlaughs" always the "illiteracy of the month winner" every single month?

[Forte]

I wish I would still get texts back though.

For what it's worth, I wish either of them would text but moreso her, she seems to be a good friend
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[Piper the Great]

its cool to have opposite sex friends. itsup to u if u trust him/her. my best friend is a female & whoever i deal with have to accept that. besides how are yall gonna stay away from the opposite sex. yall hve jobs or go to school. youll bump into somebody but its a trust thing.

[Forte]

I know eric butshereally is a sweet person and the situation is effed
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[Forte]

Because it shouldn't be that way, idk I have this weird need to fix things
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[Rollie Pollie]

I srsly hate that, when I'm trying to talk to this person who's one of the most down to earth girls I've ever talked to, and her boyfriend just keeps her on lock, like literally won't let her go out anywhere, talk to guys, hang out with other guy friends, but when it comes to him, he constantly places himself in bad situations. He's a good friend of mine, but when it comes to this, I srsly think that he's just digging himself in a hole. Add to the fact she's admitted to me that she gets jealous constantly of it and he has consistently went against some of her words(in a way lied to her and she ended up crying to me.) Its just stuff like this that makes me annoyed that we'll probably never really talk that much due to his overprotection or as you would put it finely

Doctor Cox, "However suddenly they dont talk to me anymore because they"

Cliffnotes- I do not think that they should totally isolate them from the opposite sex. In the end, they usually end up being hypocrites.

[seeking]

How funny I'm kinda dealing with said situation right now, luckily I only know them through the Internet ;)

But seriously, that's bullshit and totally insecure that a guy or girl would do that to a partner. It shows there is no love there, because there is no trust. The person being restricted needs to realize this and dump the price of shit causing this to be a problem. Freedom and trust ftw thanks
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maybe sometimes being insecure on the guy/girls part is true but the one talking to the other person is also being very disrespectful to thier partner, thats how i see it. I wouldnt vent about my girl to some female friend of mine, i would tell my girl what was bothering me...and id expect her to do the same. her/him talking to a different person about stuff like that means that s/he has trust issues with her bf/gf...i mean why else would s/he choose to talk to someone else?

[seeking]

People like those described are pathetic, and the situation is very unhealthy and anyone in that sort of situation is destined to have happen to them exactly what they fear the most. And I personally find it hilarious when it does. That goes for both sides of the street, the controller and the controlee. They're both equally spineless and pathetic.

And also, in the case you brought up Mikey, they are both to blame like I said, Both are spineless and pathetic. More so the person that is trying to control the others, simply becuase if the partner isolates the other, they don't have any loss of control and basically what that person says is law. It's deviding the person from any sort of friends or family who disagree with the way the parter is being treated.

It's a typical sociopathic technique, so I guess they are spineless, pathetic, sociopaths.

you also have to consider that if the bf/gf doesnt voice something like that then it leaves the possibility open for the other person to think that its ok to do what they are doing, even eventually possibly cheating....it works both ways....

girl: sorry i cheated on you
boy: what? why?
girl: well i figured you wouldnt care because i would talk to my friend all the time and you never were bothered by it...

[E-Rip]

People like those described are pathetic, and the situation is very unhealthy and anyone in that sort of situation is destined to have happen to them exactly what they fear the most. And I personally find it hilarious when it does. That goes for both sides of the street, the controller and the controlee. They're both equally spineless and pathetic.

Truth.


you also have to consider that if the bf/gf doesnt voice something like that then it leaves the possibility open for the other person to think that its ok to do what they are doing, even eventually possibly cheating....it works both ways....

girl: sorry i cheated on you
boy: what? why?
girl: well i figured you wouldnt care because i would talk to my friend all the time and you never were bothered by it...


Hmmm, idk, I'm gonna disagree with that..I think you're going a bit too far with that, maybe it's just me.

[seeking]

I've seen it hapen
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[King Bowser]

What I did was wrong and the only reason I did it was because its not fair. How can someone tell me you can't talk to the opposite sex but they can.


I know its wrong , I told her she can do what she wants. If something else happens then oh well I can't control anyone. You guys are very childish talking about it. You guys should have more than one friend to talk to when you have problems. Unfortunetly I am a loser like ya'll and have nobody else.

[King Bowser]

btw sorry i trust nobody on this earth , but you guys are right I shouldn't control anyone and that is wrong.


I by now should be strong enough to tell myself that if shit happens I'll be ok. I've been fucked over before so many times to be stronger than this. I am working on it and am going to be a better person.

[Forte]

Wait what?
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[King Bowser]

also thanks for making a thread instead of coming to me about it


thought i knew you all well

i've told her before this she can do what she wants .. so hit her up .. no problem here

[Forte]

...I haven't talked to either of you in awhile, nor do I know what's going on with you guys. Sorry if there's a misunderstanding here
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[King Bowser]

There's no misunderstanding. You don't need to worry about me and her. You worry about you and her since there seems to be a need to. But don't worry about me.

[Forte]

Dude WTF are you talking about?

Last I heard things were great with you two, I wasn't referring to you two in this thread. Sure I don't get texts back from iris but I know she has a busy schedule, no biggie. That's the misunderstanding I mean. I didntknow this was going on with you guys, last time me and you talked things were going great

Sorry about me not being clear dude
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[Taskmaster]

this is about you? after the last few debacles id have tought you'd have learned to keep your personal shit from becoming board soap operas. even if mikey was referring to you, which i honestly have no idea about, you just came it waving a sign saying so.

just isolate that shit from here. its not like anyone's going to anything other than make it a popcorn thread.

/waits for reply http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/1972/jacksonpopcornzv0ko4.gif

[King Bowser]

its funny because people bring my shit here.. they need to worry about their own

[Taskmaster]

it only becomes a big issue because you let it be so. you think if people see how fired up it gets you on here they'll just stop one day? you're fueling your own fire like that.......

[Forte]

Again I'm sorry if you think I meant you, I truely didn't.

You know me better then that nig
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[King Bowser]

i'm not scared to talk about myself .. i am very honest about myself and other people , the problem that i have is that i fucking restrict myself from saying things how I WANT to say them because people will get hurt


I'm not scared to do what everyone else is scared of . And that's being honest about whats going on instead of hiding it and fucking pretending to be something they are not. There's a shot at one of you.

[King Bowser]

Again I'm sorry if you think I meant you, I truely didn't.

You know me better then that nig
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I'm not an idiot.

[Taskmaster]

i'm not scared to talk about myself .. i am very honest about myself and other people , the problem that i have is that i fucking restrict myself from saying things how I WANT to say them because people will get hurt


I'm not scared to do what everyone else is scared of . And that's being honest about whats going on instead of hiding it and fucking pretending to be something they are not. There's a shot at one of you.never called you scared, im just saying that when this happens people see you can lose your cool and just play the situation for laughs. i do it to others for laughs when im bored over whatever petty problems they bring to the board but how many times has bringing shit to the baord had an adverse effect on things? there's a big difference between not being scared and being emotional and playing shit smart and a bit more detached so that people cant just mess with you like that.

[King Bowser]

I'ma be honest no matter what. I'm not going to pretend like I'm somebody I'm not.

[Forte]

Doubt me if you want.

You guys aren't the only people I talk to. I seriously haven't heard a thing about you guys since that picture thread. As you can see I'm not even posting from home anymore, I'm dealing with something that's kept me out of all this stuff lately, something I don't want to get into publically.

Why would I publically call out someone who I have defended and helped out in any way I could in many situations, public and private.

Never have I repeated things we have spoke about privately. Never will I. As I hope you wouldn't.

I an truely sorry you feel I was talking about you. My apologies.
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[Taskmaster]

"i tried" - akorn

[King Bowser]

fucking funny


talk down on me then all pretend like its not about me .. fucking man up pussies

[Gonzo]

if battle did not post in this thread i would of never known cox was talking about him :aim-doubt:

[King Bowser]

cuz mothafuckas don't man up

[Forte]

I didn't even know you guyshad issues.

I said all I can say. Didn't mean anything about anyone here and that's that.

Call me whatever you want. Doesn't change a thing. You know my number if you need anything nig. You know I'm good for it.
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[King Bowser]

I don't know your number.

[Gonzo]

lol

[Forte]

Then you must have deleted it.
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[Lil'Layzie-One]

Jealousy fucks with people man. But naw I see Nothing wrong with it. But even I can get jealous at times. It really depends on who the other person is that she helps out & such.

[Harley Quinn]

yea he did delete it..and everyone that responded here.
cox, eric, fortaaay

back to the topic, yea i think its wrong for one person to keep the other "on a collar" when it comes to small things like texts. For one we probably won't ever meet, Besides that nobody says anything wrong to the other except give advice. I have no females on this board that would be honest with me, nor that have befriended me as you 3 have been there for my situations. Its not fair that I cannot communicate even thru texts to you but when u aim to please, what else is there? When u think this will help to make them feel secure what to do? I've not done wrong, I've not gone nowhere with dudes, I've never associated myself with the opposite gender in person, nor will I ever. Here at work theres nothing but chicks..but I confide in only 1. Usually, shes too busy with her 6 month old baby to hear my nagging and honestly work is no place to bring personal business. I am responding to my texts but i never do so inappropriately and I am always faithful because there is always and only 1 for me. I've tried so hard to make that understandable for him but to each their own..if its unfair that I'm queasy about him talking and hanging out with females in the work environment as I never do to him, its only because of my scars from the past of how he used to be with me. Although this has not happened to me from him for quite some time now, I still get scared to lose him to someone else.

He's a very important person in my life, one whom I respect and choose to spend my life with, and now it just seems as if its falling to pieces over something that does not matter. No, its not about the texts either. I won't go into details out of respect.

[Lil'Layzie-One]

yea he did delete it..and everyone that responded here.
cox, eric, fortaaay

back to the topic, yea i think its wrong for one person to keep the other "on a collar" when it comes to small things like texts. For one we probably won't ever meet, Besides that nobody says anything wrong to the other except give advice. I have no females on this board that would be honest with me, nor that have befriended me as you 3 have been there for my situations. Its not fair that I cannot communicate even thru texts to you but when u aim to please, what else is there? When u think this will help to make them feel secure what to do? I've not done wrong, I've not gone nowhere with dudes, I've never associated myself with the opposite gender in person, nor will I ever. Here at work theres nothing but chicks..but I confide in only 1. Usually, shes too busy with her 6 month old baby to hear my nagging and honestly work is no place to bring personal business. I am responding to my texts but i never do so inappropriately and I am always faithful because there is always and only 1 for me. I've tried so hard to make that understandable for him but to each their own..if its unfair that I'm queasy about him talking and hanging out with females in the work environment as I never do to him, its only because of my scars from the past of how he used to be with me. Although this has not happened to me from him for quite some time now, I still get scared to lose him to someone else.

He's a very important person in my life, one whom I respect and choose to spend my life with, and now it just seems as if its falling to pieces over something that does not matter. No, its not about the texts either. I won't go into details out of respect.
I bet you have a hard time trusting people or atleast one point had a hard time trusting. The world to day is filled with cheaters & heartbreakers. For those who say they shouldn't keep them on a leash or try to keep them cooped up is probably those who cheated or never met a person who cheated on them.

[Forte]

I see @ iris. I did not know he deleted me. I text him with my number if he wants to keep it again.

Both of you guys have been good friends, that's all I know.

I really didn't know anything was going on with you guys and was not referring to you guys iris, I'm sorry it seemed that way.

I've been there for both of you guys when you each wanted me to be, and will continue for both. My intentions are nothing more than to help.
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[Lil'Layzie-One]

I see @ iris. I did not know he deleted me. I text him with my number if he wants to keep it again.

Both of you guys have been good friends, that's all I know.

I really didn't know anything was going on with you guys and was not referring to you guys iris, I'm sorry it seemed that way.

I've been there for both of you guys when you each wanted me to be, and will continue for both. My intentions are nothing more than to help.
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This sounds too emotional.

[Taskmaster]

http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/1972/jacksonpopcornzv0ko4.gif

[Forte]

My bad if it does, they have helped me through a few hard times this year and we talk quite a bit. So I can see why some may think that.
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[Lil'Layzie-One]

http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/1972/jacksonpopcornzv0ko4.gif
lol

[Forte]

I can't see what he posted since I'm on my Phone :( LOL
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[Lil'Layzie-One]

My bad if it does, they have helped me through a few hard times this year and we talk quite a bit. So I can see why some may think that.
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Naw man I didn't mean it like that bro.

[Forte]

what you mean then? Shit I'm tired... Can't even think
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[King Bowser]

No, its not about the texts either. I won't go into details out of respect.

I don't care , you can say it. Its not like its the first time anyone hasn't heard this from me before. I'd say it myself but you're too emotional for it.

[Harley Quinn]

I'm always willing to help, just if it happens to be the opposite gender, it gets to be like 'oh its a dude asking for help like theres nobody else' =/
But I do/did have a hard time trusting him after the first 2 years I had been with him. There went things going wrong that he didnt know he was doing wrong, they just left emotional scars, ones I have to deal with and get over cause the past is the past and i cannot depend on it nor dwell on that to determine my future

[Lil'Layzie-One]

what you mean then? Shit I'm tired... Can't even think
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I meant like this is the kind of thread that shouldn't of been posted. as of how far emotional it would get.

[Harley Quinn]

I don't care , you can say it. Its not like its the first time anyone hasn't heard this from me before. I'd say it myself but you're too emotional for it.

could have something to do with the 'now i can just see u as just a friend' thing or something..or perhaps that my medication lowers my libido =/ and that angers you...so that is why you're upset with me
could also be that maybe..'you don't need me anyways'

[King Bowser]

sorry i just think that talking to guys who you have told me have told you they liked you before is kinda weird...


do what you want , i'm tired of explaining myself , you do you


but don't be pissed when a girl talks to me on the damn board , i bet you'd be furious if she texted me as well

lets be fair ehhh


You all think this is me and shit , I just think it should be fair. There's no changing her , so I have to conform and have things done how SHE wants them instead of having things done in a fair manner.

[Forte]

ok maybe now is the time to take it off the board guys...
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[Lil'Layzie-One]

I'm always willing to help, just if it happens to be the opposite gender, it gets to be like 'oh its a dude asking for help like theres nobody else' =/
But I do/did have a hard time trusting him after the first 2 years I had been with him. There went things going wrong that he didnt know he was doing wrong, they just left emotional scars, ones I have to deal with and get over cause the past is the past and i cannot depend on it nor dwell on that to determine my future
See thats why its hard to depend others. As you can never tell how true they are. That includes bestfriends. they are the quickest to screw you in the back.

[Suicide Bounce]

lol @ what this turned into

[Harley Quinn]

sorry i just think that talking to guys who you have told me have told you they liked you before is kinda weird...


do what you want , i'm tired of explaining myself , you do you


but don't be pissed when a girl talks to me on the damn board , i bet you'd be furious if she texted me as well

lets be fair ehhh


You all think this is me and shit , I just think it should be fair. There's no changing her , so I have to conform and have things done how SHE wants them instead of having things done in a fair manner.

from what i remember, when u used to talk to girls on the board, u would tell them to hush so u can keep fantasizing about them and they're ruining the moment...then they wind up putting that shit in their sig nice and big for me to see.

[King Bowser]

ok maybe now is the time to take it off the board guys...
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yea good advice...


be glad the person you wish texted you is doing it now again .. ;)

double negative ?

[Harley Quinn]

lol @ what this turned into
what is your problem

[King Bowser]

from what i remember, when u used to talk to girls on the board, u would tell them to hush so u can keep fantasizing about them and they're ruining the moment...then they wind up putting that shit in their sig nice and big for me to see.



hey we can bring history classes back in the schedule ma'am


should i bring up d low or nate ?

[Lil'Layzie-One]

yea good advice...


be glad the person you wish texted you is doing it now again .. ;)

double negative ?
Sounds like a good idea.

[Harley Quinn]

yea good advice...


be glad the person you wish texted you is doing it now again .. ;)

double negative ?

i dont know if ur being jealous or something =/
dude its seriously not a big deal, u over react

[Forte]

How many times can I say it. I wasn't referring to you guys.

I wish I was on aim more cuZ itsbeen awhile since me and you even talked.

As for the threads intention I don't know; but I had no idea something was even wrong with you two.
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[King Bowser]

if a girl was texting me you'd be furious

[Harley Quinn]

hey we can bring history classes back in the schedule ma'am


should i bring up d low or nate ?

bring em both, u were not my dude at the time, and neither were they.
maybe i was trying to find one whose personality would not clash with mine but judging by what all you're telling me here at home i dont know what to call it

[Harley Quinn]

How many times can I say it. I wasn't referring to you guys.

I wish I was on aim more cuZ itsbeen awhile since me and you even talked.

As for the threads intention I don't know; but I had no idea something was even wrong with you two.
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course not cause i cant talk to you nor the bibby eric or cox

how could u know how to give me good advice when u know nothing is wrong? Lets paint a pretty picture =)

[King Bowser]

i just think its fucking sad you asked one of them to move in with you and you scared him away after like two days of talking to him

[Suicide Bounce]

what is your problem

que?

[Lil'Layzie-One]

if a girl was texting me you'd be furious
I'd strongly agree.

[Harley Quinn]

i just think its fucking sad you asked one of them to move in with you and you scared him away after like two days of talking to him

no. i never did that sir. why would i ask a dude to live with me without knowing them seriously? especially in a house full of kids? and for the record IRIS stopped talking to them, thanks.

[Harley Quinn]

que?

you know this shit isnt funny when its on the fucking board and we're under the same goddamn roof

[Forte]

You want to know why I wished iris would text?

My grandmother passed away this Sunday.

I have never lost a family member and I have no idea how to deal with this. I'm trying to be strong for my family because they need it, but I can't show my emotions: that's why I hit up a girl, and I knew she dealt with loss. Not too long ago.

My bad forhoping she could help me cope with something like I have you guys.
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[King Bowser]

I'd strongly agree.


of fucking course

but shit isn't fucking fair.. i have to be like a fucking sap without any fucking.. DAMN you know what and i have to go around work not talking to women only work related because i am being extremely faithful and proving to myself that the mistake i made before " she was just my friend who iris was jealous of " yet she can go around doing whatever she wants and i have to be like " oh its ok .. I'LL FUCKING WAIT FOR U TO FINISH TALKING TO THEM"


I honestly hope somebody fucking stops me.. for the sake of the biggest shitstorm rant I'm about to go on and shit on fucking everybody , I fucking hope someone fucking stops me .. before a lot of people get hurt because I am very irritated , pissed and aggravated .

[King Bowser]

You want to know why I wished iris would text?

My grandmother passed away this Sunday.

I have never lost a family member and I have no idea how to deal with this. I'm trying to be strong for my family because they need it, but I can't show my emotions: that's why I hit up a girl, and I knew she dealt with loss. Not too long ago.

My bad forhoping she could help me cope with something like I have you guys.
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you have other friends , at least you have that..


i apologize for your grandma but I have nobody to talk to when shit hits the fan with Iris.. fucking nobody , not a friend , not a relative , not a co worker .. NOTHING


a fucking cat


and i'm not hitting anyone up on this board for no fucking advice.. I had a falling off with everyone on here because I like to voice my opinion.

[Suicide Bounce]

you know this shit isnt funny when its on the fucking board and we're under the same goddamn roof

have you guys ever argued over aim while in the same house

that'd be pretty funny

[Harley Quinn]

oh the broad u took around with u 24 hours a day dude? the fat girl that her family thought u guys were dating n shit and would call like, come over and u go like you're her fucking dog?
and the one that u were giving money to 'for her baby' while she snuck out on her husband to see you on the down low? the ones that would hang up on me while i tried to call u and u were with them?
or the ones u worked with that would hit on u and u would help them and hold them in case they fell down going down the ramp by holding their hand?

when has iris done this or remotely close? N-E-V-E-R.

[Forte]

as far as I know you haven't had a falling out with me. I've told you you can hit me up dude.

And yes I do have others, but the person I typically vent to doesn't have a phone currently, and another is on vaxlcation. For some reason iris popped in my mind.
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[Harley Quinn]

you have other friends , at least you have that..


i apologize for your grandma but I have nobody to talk to when shit hits the fan with Iris.. fucking nobody , not a friend , not a relative , not a co worker .. NOTHING


a fucking cat


and i'm not hitting anyone up on this board for no fucking advice.. I had a falling off with everyone on here because I like to voice my opinion.

you chose that
u wanna talk to girls then i assume?

[Lil'Layzie-One]

of fucking course

but shit isn't fucking fair.. i have to be like a fucking sap without any fucking.. DAMN you know what and i have to go around work not talking to women only work related because i am being extremely faithful and proving to myself that the mistake i made before " she was just my friend who iris was jealous of " yet she can go around doing whatever she wants and i have to be like " oh its ok .. I'LL FUCKING WAIT FOR U TO FINISH TALKING TO THEM"


I honestly hope somebody fucking stops me.. for the sake of the biggest shitstorm rant I'm about to go on and shit on fucking everybody , I fucking hope someone fucking stops me .. before a lot of people get hurt because I am very irritated , pissed and aggravated .
I feel your pain homey. Its like me & this one girl who I'm fucking literally. She admitted a numerous of times she fucked around on me. but I only fucked on aroubnd on her twice. To make shit even worse she fucked two Of my best friends. But I'm pissed at all three of them but my love over powers the jealousy. But dambn I wish the jealousy would over rise my situation now Like its done in the past. So I can leave this bitch & find a new lovey dovey (lol) for the better.

[Taskmaster]

http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/1972/jacksonpopcornzv0ko4.gif

[Lil'Layzie-One]

http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/1972/jacksonpopcornzv0ko4.gif
lol stop nigga.

[Suicide Bounce]

oh the broad u took around with u 24 hours a day dude? the fat girl that her family thought u guys were dating n shit and would call like, come over and u go like you're her fucking dog?
and the one that u were giving money to 'for her baby' while she snuck out on her husband to see you on the down low? the ones that would hang up on me while i tried to call u and u were with them?
or the ones u worked with that would hit on u and u would help them and hold them in case they fell down going down the ramp by holding their hand?

when has iris done this or remotely close? N-E-V-E-R.

:wtff:

[Forte]

Posted via Mobile DeviceI still can't see what vic is posting :(

[King Bowser]

I stopped myself seven times from posting w hat I really feel like because I'm too fucking nice.

[Taskmaster]

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http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/1972/jacksonpopcornzv0ko4.gif

[Lil'Layzie-One]

I stopped myself seven times from posting w hat I really feel like because I'm too fucking nice.
Just say it bro.

[The Alpha Male]

There both douchebags IMO. The dude for being to insecure not to trust his lady and lady for giving in.

[The Alpha Male]

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[Taskmaster]

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[The Alpha Male]

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[Lil'Layzie-One]

There both douchebags IMO. The dude for being to insecure not to trust his lady and lady for giving in.
lol but what if it was the other way around?

[Taskmaster]

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[The Alpha Male]

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[Taskmaster]

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[Naruto]

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[Lil'Layzie-One]

lol @ Ghostface image. Obama lol.

[WorldSoCruel]

I've got a question. Don't you people get tired of talking about the same shit over and over again? I mean this must be some long, drawn out prank you guys are pulling on us, only it stopped being amusing months ago. You people can't just stop trying to manufacture drama over the same fucking topics. 'Iris doesn't trust Cesar', 'Cesar doesn't trust Iris'. I can't be the only one who is tired of the same mundane bullshit that these soap opera's provide, can I?

Really this relationship is irrevocably fucked. When you have people worrying about what someone is telling your chick/dude from thousands of miles away, you're relationship is far past the usual Trust issues. You can't build a lasting relationship on a foundation of lies and deceitfulness. I honestly think the best thing Cesar and Iris can do is ask for their accounts to be deleted and never speak of this place again. This place has done nothing but worsen an already tenuous relationship. Just lose your passwords and try and repair the relationship and talk openly amongst yourselves.

None of these people are your friends and you're fooling yourself to think otherwise. You can't be close with faceless strangers you'll never meet. How can you share intimate thoughts and feelings with people you can't see? I hope people can find better topics to discuss in this forum cause I mod this place and even I dread coming on just to skim through the same shit that goes on in circles
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[The Alpha Male]

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[Taskmaster]

michael's getting more popcorn. dont worry, he'll be back in a bit.

[Taskmaster]

I've got a question. Don't you people get tired of talking about the same shit over and over again? I mean this must be some long, drawn out prank you guys are pulling on us, only it stopped being amusing months ago. You people can't just stop trying to manufacture drama over the same fucking topics. 'Iris doesn't trust Cesar', 'Cesar doesn't trust Iris'. I can't be the only one who is tired of the same mundane bullshit that these soap opera's provide, can I?

Really this relationship is irrevocably fucked. When you have people worrying about what someone is telling your chick/dude from thousands of miles away, you're relationship is far past the usual Trust issues. You can't build a lasting relationship on a foundation of lies and deceitfulness. I honestly think the best thing Cesar and Iris can do is ask for their accounts to be deleted and never speak of this place again. This place has done nothing but worsen an already tenuous relationship. Just lose your passwords and try and repair the relationship and talk openly amongst yourselves.

None of these people are your friends and you're fooling yourself to think otherwise. You can't be close with faceless strangers you'll never meet. How can you share intimate thoughts and feelings with people you can't see? I hope people can find better topics to discuss in this forum cause I mod this place and even I dread coming on just to skim through the same shit that goes on in circles
Posted via Mobile Deviceso you think sams wedding train wont make it to the wedding?

[WorldSoCruel]

Nah, I doubt it
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[Taskmaster]

get on aim. i have important news for you mr roboto

[Seven1/2Designs]

Do you think its right that two people, whom claim to love eachother, demand that the partner remains totally socially isolated from the opposite sex outside of one another?

Like if I were to help a friend out and be there for them countless times and my intentions are clear of being solely as a friend. However suddenly they dont talk to me anymore because they arent "allowed" to. Would they be the bigger douchebag? Or would the partner whom feels the need to control his/her partners interactions with the opposite sex, rather than being the intellectual in the scenario and saying "STOP THIS HOGSHIT THIS DOESNT MAKE SENSE!!"?

My opinion is neither because relationships dont reside on a foundation of trust, just looking towards the future, dreams, and "marriage" is good enough, even though if you cant trust one another you will never get your relationship to be actually healthy. That would make even the prospect of marriage a bad joke and you will split up anyway after 15 years when you are dried up and with 4 kids because you realize you could never stand one-a-fucking-nother anyway.


Do share. Hi Eric. Love you. You too foreplay.
lol I read the whole thing. But I already knew where this was going after the opening sentence.

[-sampants-]

i'm seriously convinced seeking is under dr cox's username when this thread was written :que:

maybe sometimes being insecure on the guy/girls part is true but the one talking to the other person is also being very disrespectful to thier partner, thats how i see it. I wouldnt vent about my girl to some female friend of mine, i would tell my girl what was bothering me...and id expect her to do the same. her/him talking to a different person about stuff like that means that s/he has trust issues with her bf/gf...i mean why else would s/he choose to talk to someone else?

there's nothing wrong with having other male friends. if you're having communication issues with your boyfriend, then you're going to find other friends to talk to. as long as there's trust in the relationship then the other person should have nothing to worry about. when i talk to guy friends on the phone i'm not phone-sexing with them. i'm TALKING. fucking TALKING. it's not that serious. and if you're so threatened then maybe you should've stepped your game up months ago when i told u i was lonely because you never talk to me. think about it....


and also... maybe i'm talking to my male friends to get advice on how to deal with you. i see this as a problem started by the guy because fuck, why is your girl looking to talk to other guys? now i will acknowledge there is a BIGGG difference between the girl going to talk to guys to try and flirt/find a new love interest... and a girl talking to a guy as a FRIEND to fill a void/get advice/just enjoy talking. so like i said - as long as there's trust there shouldn't be an issue. but at the same time, the guy should be wondering what made the girl start talking to other guys more. maybe it's something he's doing or not doing. that is a sign for you to try and fix the fucking relationship. duh.

you also have to consider that if the bf/gf doesnt voice something like that then it leaves the possibility open for the other person to think that its ok to do what they are doing, even eventually possibly cheating....it works both ways....

girl: sorry i cheated on you
boy: what? why?
girl: well i figured you wouldnt care because i would talk to my friend all the time and you never were bothered by it...

that's your problem then. maybe you should step your game up to give the girl a reason to NOT talk to other guys as much. in a relationship you're supposed to be best of friends and talk to eachother all the time about anything. if the girl suddently feels lonely and starts talking to other people (friends or flirting) then that's because you're slacking on some communication/friend skills. step YOUR game up

and in terms of it being "disrespectful" to the other partner.... maybe it is... but at the same time if it comes to the point a girl is talking to guy friends more than the boyfriend, i'm sure this form of "disrespecting" isnt going to bother/phase her. she probably wont even see it as disrespect. and if the guy she's talking to is 100% true blue friend then i dont see how that could be disrespect. she's not boning him so how are you being disrespected? that'd be the same as me talking to my brother on the phone or something. good lord. and then guys go on the board posting in the "oh shit look at her boobies jiggle" threads and it's totally fine and not disrespectful to his girlfriend. and then he copies the URL and sends the boob gif to his brother and it's even MORE fine. give me a fucking break. everybody does their partner dirty at one time or another. stop crying like fucking babies



interpret that as you will.... :no:

[Seven1/2Designs]

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[-sampants-]

^^ lol chris. i'm serious though, i'm going thru this right now and i'm sick of being accused when i'm being 100% open and honest with everything so steven doesn't think i'm sneaking. it's fucking ridiculous. esp when i'm telling him that i'm not happy and if i'm talking to someone else that's making me happy STEVEN needs to decide if he's going to make me happy or keep doing nothing. i'm making this way too personal and i'm sorry steven but reading the replies just rubbed me the wronggggg way. i've never been in a relationship so i'm new at this stuff... and i'll never ever cheat on him... but you can't expect someone to waste their time when the relationship is a one way road instead of two. sorry.

[Seven1/2Designs]

^^ lol chris. i'm serious though, i'm going thru this right now and i'm sick of being accused when i'm being 100% open and honest with everything so steven doesn't think i'm sneaking. it's fucking ridiculous. esp when i'm telling him that i'm not happy and if i'm talking to someone else that's making me happy STEVEN needs to decide if he's going to make me happy or keep doing nothing. i'm making this way too personal and i'm sorry steven but reading the replies just rubbed me the wronggggg way. i've never been in a relationship so i'm new at this stuff... and i'll never ever cheat on him... but you can't expect someone to waste their time when the relationship is a one way road instead of two. sorry.
Yeah, i'm not even gonna be a jerk to you guys. I know where you're both coming from.

Even for your first relationship, you guys seem more serious than any other relationship on this board. It'll be okay. I wish I had more to add here, but I hate being too serious on this board. Sorta throws people off.

[-sampants-]

yeah i'm sure everyone goes thru this. i even have one of my good car buddy friends' wife msging me on myspace asking why i talk to him and im like dammit woman i need help painting my tail lights and he's done it before. like there's no trust anymore because people expect their partner to cheat. and it's fucking stupid.

[Seven1/2Designs]

yeah i'm sure everyone goes thru this. i even have one of my good car buddy friends' wife msging me on myspace asking why i talk to him and im like dammit woman i need help painting my tail lights and he's done it before. like there's no trust anymore because people expect their partner to cheat. and it's fucking stupid.
Lets have sex.

[-sampants-]

Lets have sex.


i dont know. i may be disrespecting seeking if i say yes. :no: LOL

[Seven1/2Designs]

i dont know. i may be disrespecting seeking if i say yes. :no: LOL
Stop turning me on!

[-sampants-]

Really chris before seeking makes another thread titled "seven" and starts beefing with you too. Haha. Altho I doubt he'd even bother I know the thought would be there...

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[Seven1/2Designs]

Samantha is obsessed with me sometimes. I enjoy our phone chats.

[seeking]

i think a lot of people are getting trust and respect mixed up in this thread...i dont know kbz very personaly but i dont think taht he doesnt trust iris, i think that he feels hes being disrespected....he shouldnt have to wait his turn to talk to his girlfriend because shes speaking with someone else on the phone or on aim or something...he should come first, he's the boyfriend...and him being upset about that isnt a trust or jelousy issue imo at all....same thing with me and sam, she has a friend from work who lives in texas...im not to worried about them meeting up and her cheating on me with him, but i still get upset when she talks to him as often as she does due to respect issues, not trust. I trust sam 100% and i can say that openly and honestly. Its a respect issue, you shouldnt expect the person you love and says is in love with you to put you 2nd for anything or anyone, this isnt a middleschool/highschool relationship if you have plans of getting married your partner should be numero uno, not even yourself should be rated as higher then that person, same level ok, but not higher, thats not what loving someone is about, and thats why when your partner asks you to stop talking to someone that they should do it, not because of jelousy, not because of trust issues, but out of respect.

Also wanted to mention, that if for some odd reason the problem is not about respet there is also the fact that there are absolutely no males who are friends with a female for solefriendship, if given the oprotunity they will bang her, there is a few exceptions like the girl is really ugly, or shes an ex, relative, or friends gf (but even that last one is not garenteed) but other than that, they are friends due to attraction. Every guy knows this, even the ones who deny it and will try to say they have a female who is just a friend (remember, im talking FRIENDS, not aquantences, thats different) So thats another reason why a guy might ask his girl to stop talking with another guy, because A) it makes the bf look bad, like the girl doesnt respect him thus meaning the guy who is talking to her thinks he has a chance B) its hardwired into males to be protective of thier "mate" and in this day and age thats one way of doing it...we cant go clubbing and bow and arrowing any guy we dont like anymore....

Also one last thing, if the person is such a friend with the girl, they should understand why the bf doesnt like it and accept that and move on, why would such a good friend want to bring drama to thier friends relationship? The only reason for that is selfishness and/or they dont really care about thier friends relationship..which reallyh wouldnt make them a very good friend in the first place now would it?


In conclusion there is a lot more to it then just oh hes a jelouse boyfriend, or they dont trust each other. its really easy to call these things, but when you're in the situation youself one day...oh and you will, believe me on that, you will understand what im saying if you dont allready

[King Bowser]

thanks for the pm seeking


actually everythings been fine since she herself made herself stop talking to dudes on here

seeking i bet if you did it to sampants she'd be pretty pissed off herself , its truly not fair how we are treated but oh well. These guys don't understand it cuz they are not in our situation. They are single dudes who just " want to talk " , so my advice to them is to get someone who isn't already in a relationship.


btw seeking i'm a bout to send you a pm before i go to work

[Jefe the Jew]

you also have to consider that if the bf/gf doesnt voice something like that then it leaves the possibility open for the other person to think that its ok to do what they are doing, even eventually possibly cheating....it works both ways....

girl: sorry i cheated on you
boy: what? why?
girl: well i figured you wouldnt care because i would talk to my friend all the time and you never were bothered by it...

There some truth in this. More than some of you will care to believe.

[-sampants-]

Cool maybe cesar and seeking should talk on the phone so they won't notice iris and I doing the same. Kinda homo mind ur own fucking business and steven stop crying like a little bitch I'm sick of it...

[Forte]

Bluntly, seekings full of it. You can be just a friend with a female for sole friendship. My best friend in this world is a female, and not ugly like you say must be true to be a friend with a woman.

To say that is doing a disservice to men entirely.

And Cesar, I helped you out just like I did iris this last time there were issues, does that mean that I should stop talking to you and get my own guy?

Fucking people seem to have forgotten that not EVERY single person is after every other person. Don't know how to make it any clearer
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[-sampants-]

I agree 100%. I'm so sick of people saying guys are only friends with girls to get in their pants. Gtfoutta here
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[Forte]

There a lot of guys that are, and mask it well. But it's not necessarily true
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[-sampants-]

Exactly.
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[seeking]

double

[seeking]

Cool maybe cesar and seeking should talk on the phone so they won't notice iris and I doing the same. Kinda homo mind ur own fucking business and steven stop crying like a little bitch I'm sick of it...

the thing about that would be i would be talking to another guy, not a girl, thats a big difference...

Bluntly, seekings full of it. You can be just a friend with a female for sole friendship. My best friend in this world is a female, and not ugly like you say must be true to be a friend with a woman.


i do not believe that you have not at least thought about what it would be like being with her, the whole thing about relationships is that the person you are with is supposed to be your best friend...so a guy whos best friend is a female and vice versa is definetly something that the girls bf, or guys girlfriend shoudl at the very least be wary about


a lot more
And Cesar, I helped you out just like I did iris this last time there were issues, does that mean that I should stop talking to you and get my own guy?

Fucking people seem to have forgotten that not EVERY single person is after every other person. Don't know how to make it any clearer
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this is true, but the whole point is that all to often they are, its a game of odds, and you cant fault someone for being cautious...

im speaking in general terms on this, i dont know you and kbz's relationship with each other

[Suicide Bounce]

I agree 100%. I'm so sick of people saying guys are only friends with girls to get in their pants. Gtfoutta here
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lol wow

what world do you live in?

[Gonzo]

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[Gonzo]

uh yeah... so uh i am not a big fan of frosting on cakes or cupcakes... i personally find frosting disgusting!

[Taskmaster]

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[Seven1/2Designs]

You're only friends FRIENDS with a girl if she's not attractive to you. And she's usually just ''one of the boys'', and could be one for all you care.

2 attractive people, opposite in gender, can't be friends. But that's just me.

But lol @ scaring your significant other into not talking to the opposite sex. That's so fucking pathetic.

[Seven1/2Designs]

thanks for the pm seeking


actually everythings been fine since she herself made herself stop talking to dudes on here

seeking i bet if you did it to sampants she'd be pretty pissed off herself , its truly not fair how we are treated but oh well. These guys don't understand it cuz they are not in our situation. They are single dudes who just " want to talk " , so my advice to them is to get someone who isn't already in a relationship.


btw seeking i'm a bout to send you a pm before i go to work

Yeah, DUDE because you and Seeking are the only people on this board who is in a relationship or have been in a relationship EVER.

Some times I feel as if you guys are new to the whole relationship thing. Do you honestly fucking feel that Iris stopped talking to anyone on this board BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO? You know how many times i've heard something about you making her feel like shit in order for you to feel better about yourself, and to keep her from talking to guys on here? Do you think I was joking when I said you slit your wrists to the thought of guys looking at her pics and/or complimenting her? You have her scared as fuck on here.

It doesn't help that she's been insecure for most of her life. Now she's with someone who's even more insecure, and is making her feel worse about herself even more than she has in the past when she wasn't even with you.

You say we're not in your situation. Do you honestly BELIEVE no one else here understands? You're not the only ones who has gone through this shit before. But I can tell you people here handle it better than you ever can. You have a really good girlfriend who loves you, and you make her scared about losing you. You make her feel like you're her last shot at being with someone who loves her. Plenty of dudes would treat her better than you ever can.

Suck my fucking cock.

[Doctor Cox]

thanks for the pm seeking


actually everythings been fine since she herself made herself stop talking to dudes on here

seeking i bet if you did it to sampants she'd be pretty pissed off herself , its truly not fair how we are treated but oh well. These guys don't understand it cuz they are not in our situation. They are single dudes who just " want to talk " , so my advice to them is to get someone who isn't already in a relationship.


btw seeking i'm a bout to send you a pm before i go to work

Boo hoo hoo. Im not in your situationnn.. wahhh....

You are absolutely right. I am not in the situation of Cesar or Seeking because im not insecure. Ive got my problems, mostly due to undying hatred and loathing of my peers, but thats another story.

Its never been my problem that Im so fucking insecure. You know what? When I was engaged my best friend was a girl. We'd hang out OMFG alone. I know, scary right? WE WERE FUCKING NO DOUBT. Relationships are built on trust, end of story. Oh and another point, my girl hung out with GUYS. HOLLLLY SHIT!!

Give it up. Stop trying to rationalize your ridiculous and self serving behavior. Maybe you feel you lack something that you have this undying need for control or your lover might be "taken from you"

Ill talk to whoever the fuck I want to. I talk to girls in relationships and their b/f's dont come after me. Thats because they trust them.

I cant even really say anything more, Eric summed it up well. I fucking helped both of you and gave honest advice every fucking time on call like a therapist. So once you are done with my advice I can be cast aside like trash? I know deep shit about both of you, and never once have I used it against you. No matter what WorldSoCruel thinks, things have changed. Friendship can be formed on the internet. Maybe not best friends, but companionship? Yes.

The point of this thread, I dont know. I wanted to see if I was in the wrong. I didnt realize that certain parties would come in here and take the chance to display how unstable their new stable relationship is. You did that yourselves, dont blame me.

However I will admit that its been exceedingly entertaining to read through all this. Thanks for taking my point and making another. Its been fun.

[Seven1/2Designs]

Well two people can both be hawt but just not into eachother, different likes/dislikes.
I'm not saying it's impossible. But the attraction is there if both parties is decent looking. They probably just hate each other on a more personality level.

But then I say ''why even be friends?''. I hate females to the point where it's a waste of time being friends unless you grew up together.

[Doctor Cox]

This was an absolute fucktastrophe

[King Bowser]

I fail to see the reasoning where women can feel like " hey this guy will leave me if he talks to women cuz its happened to me before " and its ok for them to think that but me and seeking have been fucked over and its wrong for us to think like that. We got fucked over psychologically.


You all hate me so bad , and it seems to me you guys are taking this even more serious than I am . Why the hatred ?

[Doctor Cox]

I hate everyone, you know that. I just hate some less than others.

[King Bowser]

You know what? When I was engaged my best friend was a girl. We'd hang out OMFG alone. I know, scary right? WE WERE FUCKING NO DOUBT. Relationships are built on trust, end of story. Oh and another point, my girl hung out with GUYS. HOLLLLY SHIT!!



and you guys broke up because .. you guys didn't have enough time for each other.. but other guys did ? I'm not surprised.

[Bittersweet Bandit]

I hate everyone, you know that. I just hate some less than others.

i luv u DR COX.

u r tha ish

but i aint seen ya around latley.

U still got my bakkkk?

[King Bowser]

I agree 100%. I'm so sick of people saying guys are only friends with girls to get in their pants. Gtfoutta here
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you're a fucking moron

[Seven1/2Designs]

Lets scare the girl into not having male friends so I can control her into staying with me.

[King Bowser]

she's not 14

[Bittersweet Bandit]

she's not 14

your name rhymes with thing cattle phone

[Seven1/2Designs]

she's not 14
Good thing you haven't run out of material, you controlling insecure hogwash bitch.

Mad cause I saved pics of your little sister.

[Harley Quinn]

I see things like..tunnel vision seriously. When I go to the store I don't go looking for dudes, In my mind theres just one.

It just DOES suck though that I wouldn't be able to speak to my buddies thru texts for crying out loud TEXT messages to say "hi there dude you still alive or what?' On this board 99 percent are dudes, of those 99 percent i would text message 3 of them. the ones that were there for me when I needed someone to help me cope with my stress, to them I say Thank you. Eric, Cox, Forte Thanks. =) Don't think that I forgot all about you. Yes Sir frostman you can call me spineless I will still remember all the times you were there for me so I can nag and you talk me through it all. same thing with Dr Cox. Forte also always helped us out. It sux dude, but really ..I dont know

Chris I remember I spoke to once before, he also came through with advice and it did help. I can say I am a crybaby but not a groupie sir eric, to the bibby's lol =) I'm extra sensitive and anything will make me want to slit my wrists =(

[Seven1/2Designs]

I see things like..tunnel vision seriously. When I go to the store I don't go looking for dudes, In my mind theres just one.

It just DOES suck though that I wouldn't be able to speak to my buddies thru texts for crying out loud TEXT messages to say "hi there dude you still alive or what?' On this board 99 percent are dudes, of those 99 percent i would text message 3 of them. the ones that were there for me when I needed someone to help me cope with my stress, to them I say Thank you. Eric, Cox, Forte Thanks. =) Don't think that I forgot all about you. Yes Sir frostman you can call me spineless I will still remember all the times you were there for me so I can nag and you talk me through it all. same thing with Dr Cox. Forte also always helped us out. It sux dude, but really ..I dont know

Chris I remember I spoke to once before, he also came through with advice and it did help. I can say I am a crybaby but not a groupie sir eric, to the bibby's lol =) I'm extra sensitive and anything will make me want to slit my wrists =(
See, i'm a good friend.

I can LITERALLY hear the blade scraping Cesar's wrists because you said my name.

[Gonzo]

your welcome

[Harley Quinn]

quiet groupie bibby

:cesar:

bah humbug

[Gonzo]

quiet groupie bibby

that does it...

STRIKE ONE!

[Gonzo]

oh wait that was about queen :aim-doubt: because she is the groupie of the bibbys according to that other thread...

i guess i should take that strike away then... :aim-doubt:

[Harley Quinn]

See, i'm a good friend.

I can LITERALLY hear the blade scraping Cesar's wrists because you said my name.

no sir, you're not a bad friend. i never thought u were. I known you the longest from the internet and I've yet to think you a horrible friend to anyone

I dont know what the cesar vs seven is about but I always thought you two got along fine

[Gonzo]

that does it i am upset now... i refuse to be compared to a giant deformed monkey/penis hybrid like e.t.

STRIKE 2

[Gonzo]

your knife love angers me more and more each day

(noticed that we hijacked the thread?)

[Seven1/2Designs]

no sir, you're not a bad friend. i never thought u were. I known you the longest from the internet and I've yet to think you a horrible friend to anyone

I dont know what the cesar vs seven is about but I always thought you two got along fine
People don't know this about me.

Sad, though. I'm good with advice giving. And i've never had anything against any one here. I just hate how people are treated and manipulated into believing they're not worth anyone elses time.

Iris, if you guys don't work out i'll be happy. That's how much I hate the dude right now. You can do much better.

I'm not against talking to you at any point if you need to talk to someone.

[Gonzo]

maybe seven is really from france and he just lies and says he is from mass?

[Harley Quinn]

:) I shall work on making the trust in me work so we can all be a big happy e-board family =D with the inclusion of Seven1/2Designs =)

:( eric stop calling me a bibby groupie...crybaby is ok but groupie to the bibby family? :( what a disgrace!!!

[Harley Quinn]

you're a fucking whore, we all know it, why deny it? ALL GIRLS ARE WHORES AND THEY ALL CHEAT THE SECOND THEY TALK TO ANOTHER GUY!

:) hush frostman this is not trueness.

[Seven1/2Designs]

Put your hat on correctly christopher

hahah I can see this is making you go nuts.

I purposely put it on like this for this picture.

maybe seven is really from france and he just lies and says he is from mass?

I am a French poet. That's the look I was going for.

:) I shall work on making the trust in me work so we can all be a big happy e-board family =D with the inclusion of Seven1/2Designs =)

:( eric stop calling me a bibby groupie...crybaby is ok but groupie to the bibby family? :( what a disgrace!!!

I love you.

[Seven1/2Designs]

Stop talking to me I don't want to sleep with you!



Plz if you have any decency and love in your heart take a new pic with your hat on right and you picking your nose and or sticking your tongue out.
Done.

[Doctor Cox]

and you guys broke up because .. you guys didn't have enough time for each other.. but other guys did ? I'm not surprised.


That pained me deeply. Its sad we had a falling out, careers got in the way, and we didnt realize how far we had gotten until it was too late. I regret some things about it, but Im not going to sit here and be so unsure of myself thinking she was fucking other guys. If she was, eh, we arent together anymore are we? We were quite faithful to eachother. Since I have no proof, why be paranoid about it? Its called self esteem Cesar. And its apparent you lack it, seeing how I didnt even put you by name, just trying to ask the board for their views seeing if my anger was just me being angry me, or valid in the internet world. I didnt ask my close friends IRL because they have never been in an active community on the internet such as this.

Either way, you came blurting out this confession like it was eating at you, and now here we are. You put your personal business in this, not me. You could've played clueless, but you didnt. I didnt create this butt fucking fiasco, but Im more than happy to watch it unfold.

Seven, debate key points, but dont use language like that and attacks that arent on the issue of self esteem and abuse, but out of hatred and spite. I will have to delete them.

[-sampants-]

People don't know this about me.

Sad, though. I'm good with advice giving.

i'll second this... chris is very good with advice. he's helped me a few times when i've just about given up on my relationship and been fed up. it's because he can see both sides and can understand because he's been thru it before. i'd say he's one of my better "internet friends" as well. i know where iris is coming from. he's not a threat he's a friend. i guess that's why he wants to get into my pants. (i kid, i kid).


as for the whole "scaring your girl into not talking to other guys"... FUCK THAT. if anything, i talk to other guys to scare my bf into treating me better. you have to be happy in a relationship... and if you're missing something that makes you happy it's only natural to go find that something. it's called being human. no relationship is 100% perfect but i'm a firm believer that if you know something makes you happy and you're not getting it, but know you can from someone else, then go for it. maybe it's cheating, maybe it's not... but at the end of the day it's about yourself being happy and that's what matters.

[poetryqueen12890]

Do you think its right that two people, whom claim to love eachother, demand that the partner remains totally socially isolated from the opposite sex outside of one another?

Like if I were to help a friend out and be there for them countless times and my intentions are clear of being solely as a friend. However suddenly they dont talk to me anymore because they arent "allowed" to. Would they be the bigger douchebag? Or would the partner whom feels the need to control his/her partners interactions with the opposite sex, rather than being the intellectual in the scenario and saying "STOP THIS HOGSHIT THIS DOESNT MAKE SENSE!!"?

My opinion is neither because relationships dont reside on a foundation of trust, just looking towards the future, dreams, and "marriage" is good enough, even though if you cant trust one another you will never get your relationship to be actually healthy. That would make even the prospect of marriage a bad joke and you will split up anyway after 15 years when you are dried up and with 4 kids because you realize you could never stand one-a-fucking-nother anyway.


Do share. Hi Eric. Love you. You too foreplay.

I think people can have friends of the opposite sex. Some people who are married in their 30's and beyond have old high school/childhood friends that they speak to occasionally, whenever they run into them, that are of the opposite sex. Also, with me- in high school I had a boyfriend in the 11th grade, and I had male friend since 7th grade, so I had known him for 5 years, way longer than my boyfriend. My boyfriend said he hated seeing me with him and just wanted to punch him in the face and all this crazy mess. I was like you need to chill, because you give your female friends hugs and talk to them, and I don't trip or expect you to end relationships with them because of me - as long as you keep it strictly friendly. I told him that he was JUST A FRIEND, and I've known him for years, and I'm not gonna diss people I've known for years for anyone. Relationships aren't gonna be a guarenteed success, but you'll more than likely always have your friends.

Some people feel that if you are in a relationship, you should cut off all ties with friends of the opposite sex, because if ya'll are friends, then ya'll must be attracted to each other on some level. Trust me, I have male friends that don't even like me like that, so that's not true. I think if you are in a relationship, you should only talk to your friends of the opposite sex at work, school, or in a group setting. It shouldn't be that oh we're just going to the movies together, kissing, or being too touchy-feely. That's for the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. Now, when you got that rock on your finger, then you kind of have to change some things. Your relationships with members of the opposite sex should be a hi and bye thing. You have to give up a whole lot. It's just a crazy and deep topic that really depends on the couple, but with different levels comes different sacrifices.

[Harley Quinn]

but if those people share friends in common and talk to each other through text messaging only (yes both) it shouldn't scare anyone. You guys should be able to see the text messages and not be afraid only because they talk to them too.. its not anyone is flying 10,000 miles to see the person over in the other state to cheat. It doesnt work that way. One should be able to still stay friends (esp. online ones) without being afraid they'd cheat. ESPECIALLY if they have the rock on their fingers that only makes it all the more reason for them to trust in each other and SHARE FRIENDS.

[Forte]

No hate for you say czar. You know that. I didn't have a falling out with you at all, in fact our last convo was about how much you were enjoying it down there with her.

Never once did I hit on iris nor try to make you guys split. I can say that honestly and truthfully. She can tell you that our conversations never went that way.

I don't feel like I have a damn thing to prove to you, but I also don't want to lose the companionship of 2 of the coolest people here.

Question me and my intentions all you want, I know me and know the truth. If you hate me now Cesar for some reason and tell people everyting I have told you that's your decision. I text you with my number again and if you want to hit me up you are more then welcome nig.

Oh and those who don't believe guys and girls can't be good or best friends really need to take a BIG look at themselves.
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[Forte]

Oh and you are welcome iris, but you don't have to thank me. You help me too so it's reciprocated
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[Harley Quinn]

No hate for you say czar. You know that. I didn't have a falling out with you at all, in fact our last convo was about how much you were enjoying it down there with her.

Never once did I hit on iris nor try to make you guys split. I can say that honestly and truthfully. She can tell you that our conversations never went that way.

I don't feel like I have a damn thing to prove to you, but I also don't want to lose the companionship of 2 of the coolest people here.

Question me and my intentions all you want, I know me and know the truth. If you hate me now Cesar for some reason and tell people everyting I have told you that's your decision. I text you with my number again and if you want to hit me up you are more then welcome nig.

Oh and those who don't believe guys and girls can't be good or best friends really need to take a BIG look at themselves.
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:) he knows my conversations with anyone never go that way. with the exception of sam.

[Forte]

LOL yes you and mikey are the shit, and cessy has to but not recently. Y'all are the best
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[Harley Quinn]

She never helped me, she just bitched about herself then signed off.

And what about me? I helped you the other week anuslobe.
=( you never says whats wrong with u, i ask and u say i cannot help you..but i only sign off when cesar calls cause its hard to speak to you about leather when cesar is on the phone

[Harley Quinn]

Cesar's the same as Iris

no sir, we are very different as we have come to see living together =)

[Forte]

Hey and I helped you too eric you souless bastard
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[Forte]

oh yes I have haha. Speaking of, I'll hit you up later iron man
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[Harley Quinn]

i have holes in my ears

[Forte]

I swear it wasn't.
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[Gonzo]

lol sarcasm? I honestly thought Mikeys post was about some real life friends on his. Then by the time I got to Fortes post and a few that followed I was like...oh this must be about Cesar and Iris.

And I honestly dont come into the basement anymore or talk to anyone outside the board on aim or anything anymore. So Im not even up on all the drama and I could still tell what this wass about. Lol@ Forte trying to deny it later....weeeeaaaaaaaak it was very clear you were talking about them.

lol i was being serious...

idk shit about anybody on here except for eric because he is my soul mate (homo)

[King Bowser]

Seven , you don't know me . You act like I'm this huge jerk .


Cox , that's bullshit. You want to say " well i didn't want to say your name and you could've played clueless". No bitch but you had the balls to make this thread , talk it out with eric and forte about it before making it , but didn't have the balls to say " oh yea its cesar". That's fucked up. You have an issue you s hould've hit me up not made a thread. You call me out and expect me not to say shit ?

Everyone here who thinks I'm this insecure jerk is wrong. I think its unfair that Iris CAN do this and have her friends and ... I don't. But I can't say " its unfair" because you guys think all wrong. I think nothing wrong of you guys talking to her. Are you fucking kidding me ? Eric .. LMAO. That dude .. oh god no.. Nobody would go out with that Milton Bradley Operation Reject. Cox ? Yea I've seen his picture.. there goes that out the window. Forte ? No.. I doubt that . Its the PRINCIPLE of the thing. I've told her a while back she can do what she wants. If she was to drop me I am strong enough to say I can without her and find someone else. She has no reason to drop me I have done nothing wrong. But you guys want to act like I'm this huge asshole when in reality I'm just reacting towards HER actions. When she was insecure as fuck and I told you all , NOBODY bitched. Nobody said WELL LETS TELL HER HOW WRONG SHE IS IN THREAD. Nope. Also , if you want to talk about TRUE friends , then I am sadly dissapointed. Cox is a nice guy deep inside and Forte is just a lost soul with many misfortunes who needs an ear at times but also gives you his shoulder. But Eric , you've talked to me the most and you are the one who's acting the worst. Real friends would talk about it , instead you just talk down. Fucked up. Even though you've been the biggest liar on this board , even if you get in your little pissy moods w hen shit doesn't go your way , I've always been there no matter what. Fucked up.

[King Bowser]

yea its fucked up he fucking denied it later.. man up dude , you lost mad respect right there for not mannin up

[Harley Quinn]

People don't know this about me.

Sad, though. I'm good with advice giving. And i've never had anything against any one here. I just hate how people are treated and manipulated into believing they're not worth anyone elses time.

Iris, if you guys don't work out i'll be happy. That's how much I hate the dude right now. You can do much better.

I'm not against talking to you at any point if you need to talk to someone.

whoaa failed to see that part there sir :)
i will be sad though chris, I work really hard to be where i am and he does too, yes we disagree alot, something we have to learn to do is to comply or come to agreements together where we meet down the middle and compromise with each other. We're freshly new with the living together thing so we're still learning alot about each other everyday.

I don't want anyone else, I stayed here this long because I want this badly but I don't think I'm wrong in trying to not hurt him. If I do something that may hurt his feelings I'll stop. Its just all part of being in love and being together, I say we make peace with whatever we have and move on if its not worth arguing over. Although I know I will not do anything wrong to him ever, (its just not in my nature to want others while im in a serious relationship) =/ I can say i will stop talking to dudes to make it even. I am afraid history will repeat itself and I will hurt again so I am the one that is afraid of him speaking to the chicks even here online.

I remember when he did he would say something to them and next thing i know its in their sig..he says something like 'shut up, i'm trying to daydream about you and ur ruining it' I never talk to dudes this way online. Never talk to dudes in person at all. I work in an all women atmosphere. In person I could recall some instances where he hurt me more than once..the first 2 years were the worst for me but I'm still here. I still want to be here. So much has changed for the best, he has changed for the best, just one day woke up and realized maybe I am worth it..that maybe i really am different than the other girls he was used to talking to. I wont budge unless I have to. I am really happy where I am :)

[King Bowser]

After reading some more of the posts this is my conclusion.

There are certain members here who have a serious crush on Iris. I've actually thought this about a couple people for a while. Cesar isnt acting that strangely, people can sit here and preach all they want but we all have insecurities and jealousy, just to different degrees and for different things.

I think alot of the anger here is actually coming from jealousy from some of the other members. I think one or two or three or so people here have an actual crush on Iris. Other wise I dont think it would be such a big deal if Cesar was restricting her from talking.

Just my opinion.


I'm asking why all the anger but you pretty much answered me.

[Harley Quinn]

i have an ear infection?

I went to the store bought those earrings to start the hole thing dude..stings a little but I dont want them huge..they're on my second earhole since I have 2 piercings on each =D

[Gonzo]

idk about your insecure jerk issues or really any personal shit about you because i never ask because i don't care, but i do know you are a jerk

:aim-doubt:

you can be a asshole many times for no reason... for example that whole shit about flesh... that was retarded and you were acting like a total dick to people like me when i was trying to be nice to you and that's just one of many examples

don't get me wrong you are not hitler mo bad or anything like that, but you are a asshole :aim-kissing:

[King Bowser]

yea i can be a jerk

[King Bowser]

yea the girl im currently seeing has a similar philosophy on the relationship. And its nice, but I worry at the same. I admit Im human and have certain jealousies and I know there will be times I take advantage of her devotion to me.

Jealousy is a strange thing....lol I could get jealous about my gf spending time or talking to certain guys....then at the same times Im fine when I ask her to go find a dude pull him into a bathroom and suck him off and take pics of it for me ;) so yea, jealousy is strange.


you know before , when you told me you liked to lick assholes.. i had a crush on you


as of right now i might take a drive to your hometown and see whats up

[Harley Quinn]

I talk down to you becuase I've been telling you the same shit for a year and a half, either you listen and take the advice, or you live in your own little world, I'm not wasting my time on your bullshit anymore, You have some hung up about a girl from five fucking years ago that fucked you over and you can't for whatever reason get over it. I'm sorry you got hurt, but man the fuck up and get on with your life before you ruin this relationship.

And lets be real, we haven't had a convo not about you and iris for more than a year, you, much like iris, only talk to me when you need a shoulder to cry on. And I'm done with it, you both don't listen, you both only care about yourselves, you shouldn't be with anyone let alone eachother and I've been saying that to both of your for a fuckin year.

hey thas not nice:mad:
I try to help and I also listen to you but u never ask for advice and yes i know why and yes i know i cant help u with your issues but shit eric, it doesn't mean i dont give a shit about what all is going on with you. I dont know why you say i only care about myself and that i shouldnt be with anyone let alone cesar, I'm not a bad person, I never have been and yea I do go to you to ask for advice because I thought u cared, you always came thru for me dude and I thought I could do the same for you, somedays you don't want to bother with anyone and respectfully, I let you alone when you're in one of those moods cause you dont feel well but I worry. And YES i STILL feel like shit for not sending the damn books to you I know you would read them, that i wont deny. if you still want them i will ask cesar to take me to the post office and i will ship them to you but why the sourness? I've never been sour to you sir, I've always thought you a friend whether or not you have or have not thought me a friend.

[Seven1/2Designs]

After reading some more of the posts this is my conclusion.

There are certain members here who have a serious crush on Iris. I've actually thought this about a couple people for a while. Cesar isnt acting that strangely, people can sit here and preach all they want but we all have insecurities and jealousy, just to different degrees and for different things.

I think alot of the anger here is actually coming from jealousy from some of the other members. I think one or two or three or so people here have an actual crush on Iris. Other wise I dont think it would be such a big deal if Cesar was restricting her from talking.

Just my opinion.
That's the thing, Mike. You haven't been within our little circle long enough to know the whole story.

It goes beyond this board.

I will tell you you're way off on your assumption. Way off.

[Seven1/2Designs]

you werent one of the people if thats why you're getting defensive about my conclusion.

And I dont have to be part of the circle, i've been here long enough and have seen plenty of posts and chat room convos to have figured there are a couple guys here crushing on Iris. Reading other peopels behaviors isnt that difficult, all you have to do is be honest about your own behaviors and what it means when you act or talk certain ways. Yes we're all individuals, but we're all human and have "human nature" and share many similar qualities and behaviors.

Trust me when I say there is DEFINITELY 1 if not 2 or 3 people here with a real crush on Iris. I would bet money on it thats how sure I am.
You're probably right about people having a crush on her and that's why this thread exists.

But it's a lot deeper than that. The guy you're trying to make seem innocent, isn't so innocent. Some times it can be a friendly ''hi'' that sets it off.

[Forte]

There are some who have crushes on iris, as there are for other girls on the board. Does that get them anywhere? No.

Cesar. I wasn't referring to you. You have my word.

Thanks forwhat you said, I am somewhat of a lost soul at times, and I love helping where I can. I've grown up with women friends, guess I adopted that aspect. Women are just easier to talk to about personal things.

Like when I talked to iris about the married Woman I was going to go meet with, she told you and you asked why I didn't hit you up. Women are easier to talk to for me for some reason.

I think both of you have some security issues, I've told you both that. I believe it stems from past experiences. We are suppose to learn from our past, not live in fear of our past happening again. In my opinion you both are extremists, nothings partway done, it's all or nothing. But that's my two cents
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[Gonzo]

it's a good thing that a gffl like me is always around for my bx8

[Gonzo]

Yes! The rest of you can eat worms out of courtney loves vagina!!

[Harley Quinn]

I don't bother with things with you or anyone cus I don't give a fuck about it. I'm not trying to better myself through complete strangers help, thats what a shrink is for.

I didn't say and would never say you are a bad person, but you and I both know you are SERIOUSLY fucked in the head. You will NEVER be in a good relationship until you work on yourself, by yourself. Until then you will be in abusive and or shitty relationships that you either create yourself or fall into cus you are so petrified of being alone.

You and Cesar both are very self centered, atleast with me, even when I ask for a shoulder to cry on you both have some other shit to do, while I've put a hold on things to help you because thats what I do with people I care about. As of about 6 months ago I could honestly give a fuck about your problems because you won't help yourselves, so I'm not wasting my time and stressing out about your bullshit, I have enough of my own.

I don't give half a fuck about the books, I don't even remember what books your talking about. what I care about is me spending DAYS and DAYS talking both of you down from leaving eachother or cheating on eachother or whatever stupid bullshit you bring up that day to not be listened to. Either you listen to what I'm saying or you don't, if you don't, I'm not wasting my time on you. Period, that goes with ANYONE.

I've never talked down about Cesar until he deserved it, I'm still keeping alot of shit to myself cus I do still have love for him as a person. But he's been acting like a fucking idiot for months, I don't know why, I don't really care at this point. I just hope he figures out his bullshit before he ruins his life.

alright now thats VERY fucked up sir. Nothing is wrong with myself other than i take medicine for anxiety, I'm not Fucked up in the head. You think he may ruin his life with me? No, nevermind I dont care to read your responses anymore. If you're done, I'm done too. I cannot help your sour mood anymore, hell seems like the more i try the more of an asshole you are to me so i guess you can still convince him to leave me or something cause i'm fucked in the head since u still have some love for him. ok. make up some more shit you dont know about me. as far as i know he is the one whom knows me, and has known me in person, he's been here 5 years is still here and i never told him to stay. might not be as bad as you say i am.


for the record you never asked for a shoulder to cry on, had you done so, i would have been the one to stay up late to talk to you, thanks.

[King Bowser]

trust me, im not trying to make Cesar seem innocent. I'm sure he probably does get ridiculous with it.

my point is its always easy to point fingers from the other side of the fence. Now Im not going to say EVERYONE here ragging on him gets as jealous as him. But no one should play like they've never been in similar shoes as his.

And quite frankly, seeing that there are people who are calling themselves or at one time called themselves his "friend" but are crushing on his girl and expecting quality attention from her I dont blame him that much for showing some jealousy or insecurities. I mean isnt it bad enough when you have to worry about strangers putting the moves on your girl? but when you have to live with knowing your "friends" are crushing on her too. That sucks.

And people can save all the "if you're confident and dont have any insecurities it wouldnt bother you." If you're never atleast a little worried then I say you just dont care what happens between you and your lover.

So yea, sure Cesar probably did a lot of asshole things, but the people who are getting angry that Iris isnt giving them the same kind of attention because they really like her, they're assholes too. Shes taken, you know her bf very well, get over it and stop throwing a fit. Lets not pretend any of you are seriously that hurt over not getting the same attention from an "internet friend" jeeez whats that say about self esteem and insecurity?

Anyways, maybe you guys should make an aim chat or something instead of airing this out on the board, its getting a little silly.


No matter what you say , it won't make a difference because what they think of me is set in stone and what you say can be washed away with a wet towel. I just think its fucked up cuz I'm a very loyal person even if I get shitted on by these guys at times ( lets not kid ourselves i shit on them too) but something like this goes down and now I'm an enemy. Also if you guys are telling me you guys didn' t PLAN this , that shows how ignorant you are. This was definetly a planned deal and its honestly not going to get any of you anywhere except show me how you truly are. Thanks.

[Gonzo]

i think it's obvious that sometimes eric is asking for a shoulder to cry on with the amount of threads and posts he discusses about his injuries and problems :aim-doubt:

[Harley Quinn]

i hadnt even been online for a couple of months, regardless the cesar/iris name


i dont know shit about what has been going on sir sal, nobody sends me messages for help unless its the ones from the life discussion, which some of those really truly do need advice

[King Bowser]

alright now thats VERY fucked up sir. Nothing is wrong with myself other than i take medicine for anxiety, I'm not Fucked up in the head. You think he may ruin his life with me? No, nevermind I dont care to read your responses anymore. If you're done, I'm done too. I cannot help your sour mood anymore, hell seems like the more i try the more of an asshole you are to me so i guess you can still convince him to leave me or something cause i'm fucked in the head since u still have some love for him. ok. make up some more shit you dont know about me. as far as i know he is the one whom knows me, and has known me in person, he's been here 5 years is still here and i never told him to stay. might not be as bad as you say i am.


for the record you never asked for a shoulder to cry on, had you done so, i would have been the one to stay up late to talk to you, thanks.


even when he told you bad shit about yourself you still cared for him


Its funny how they think we're all fighting all the time and shit when for the most part we're enjoying ourselves. We honestly aren't bad at all to each other. Besides this , there's nothing else that can fuck us up. She's a good girlfriend , she cleans , cooks , I try to be a good boyfriend , we take each other out all the time , we go eat out all the time and enjoy new places and do different things at least twice or three times a week. Nothing anyone can say can break us. Its just funny to me how I'm such a bad person but she can't stop smiling when we're together.

[Forte]

I'm at my fucking grandparents house with no computer. I was just checking the board and the smod sections and saw the thread. I had absolutelyno idea things were wrong with you guys. I hadn't talked to iris in forever and last I saw was your thread I. Picture forum
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[Gonzo]

http://marvin.hb0da.org/%7Ebeavis/archive/files/lolz.jpg

can i get a "lolz"

[King Bowser]

again what are you talking about .. there's nothing wrong with us

[Forte]

I don't think the answer for you guys and the issues is to break it off. I've never said it and still don't believe that. There are issues but who doesn't have issues. I just think both of you are too scared of past coming back around IMO
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[King Bowser]

You really need to learn how to read Iris, you can deny all you want in public, but we have had many convos about things other than your anxiety, and others here and on other boards have too, so you can deny all you want but we both know the truth. This is another problem you and cesar have, you both deny doing anything wrong or anything anyone says about you.

Did I say being with you would ruin his life? No I said, HE is going to ruin his life, as in him, as in cesar, slowpoke rodriguez, etc. Learn how to read without thinking everyones out to get you.

He stays because he is just as insecure about himself as you are, we've been over this already, your both great people and fun to talk to but you have the self esteem of a rock.

I'm not in a sour mood, I'm in a fine mood, You think I'm in a bad mood cus I'm no longer babying you or cesar, thats fine, I'm in a sour mood then.



Yea , you've BEEN telling me that she's so insecure and that I need to double and triple check if I should stay with her considering all the shit she's put me through with her insecurity. And every damn time , after every damn time we stopped talking cuz she's so insecure and she thinks i'm doing something .. the answer was always the same.. Yes.. cuz she's worth it. She's a good person and has a great heart. If that wasn't the case you all wouldn't be pissed at me right now , now would you ? Insecurities aside she's a beautiful person inside and out and I can put up with her insecurities. I am sorry that we put you through what we did by bitching about each other.

[King Bowser]

I don't think the answer for you guys and the issues is to break it off. I've never said it and still don't believe that. There are issues but who doesn't have issues. I just think both of you are too scared of past coming back around IMO
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who isn't


if you burn yourself , you gone be scared of fire


but slowly I .. I can't speak for iris , but me , myself am getting over it. I don't think I can get over it completely , because the pain will always be there , but I can minimize it to the point where i don't look like some lunatic wielding a gun out of a baby carriage.

[Harley Quinn]

=( at least i still have forte or mikey to talk to about my anxieties.. maybe they will still care.

[Forte]

Don't be sorry. Such is life. Hope all a well
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[King Bowser]

All in all I find this thread very comforting. It shows you care about us , more so Iris but hey what can I do about that. People have crushes and I'm sorry you can't do anything to get what you want.

[Forte]

You two are so different yet so alike. Maybe that's why I like you guys, easy to talk to and entertaining.

Cessy. Save my number again love, thanks
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[Gonzo]

=( at least i still have forte or mikey to talk to about my anxieties.. maybe they will still care.

:aim-doubt:

um... uh... never mind :aim-wink:

[Gonzo]

All in all I find this thread very comforting. It shows you care about us , more so Iris but hey what can I do about that. People have crushes and I'm sorry you can't do anything to get what you want.

i have a crush on you stud muffin

[Harley Quinn]

:aim-doubt:

um... uh... never mind :aim-wink:

:( what sal? you hate me too?

[King Bowser]

its fucked up..


she's been saying " yea i'll cook your pork chops in five more minutes" .. and i am STILL hungry'



http://www.flixya.com/content_photos/files/chexed96779.jpg

[King Bowser]

i have a crush on you stud muffin


baby I'd take a five star frog splash for you

[Forte]

I ain't had a pork chop in years. Grandpa is Trillin up some steaks :)

WTF @ Trillin. I typed in grillin on my iphone and predictive text changed it to that. Fucking apple and their hip ways
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[Harley Quinn]

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/64/Pork_chops_served.jpg

STILL WAITING !!

:cesar: :nono: /blocks private messaging

[Gonzo]

time for a bbq party bibby style

i want my bibby back bibby back bibby back bibby back bibby back bibby back bibby q sauce!

[King Bowser]

/stereotype sauce !

[King Bowser]

http://z.about.com/d/tattoo/1/0/s/Z/011503k.jpg

[Harley Quinn]

Muppet Babies, we make our dreams come true
Muppet Babies, we'll do the same for you

Kermit: When your world looks kinda weird and you wish that you weren't there
Piggy: Just close your eyes and make believe and you can be anywhere

Kermit: I like adventure
Piggy: I like romance
Fozzie: I love great jokes
Animal: Animal dance!!
Scooter: I've got my computer
Skeeter: I swing through the air
Rowlf: I play the piano
Gonzo: And I have blue hair
Bunsen: Me, I invent things
Beaker: Mee mee mee meee!

Nanny: Is everything all right in here?
All: Yes, Nanny.

Muppet Babies, we make our dreams come true
Muppet Babies, we'll do the same for you

Muppet Muppet Muppet Muppet
Babies Babies Babies Babies
Make dreams come true.

[Gonzo]

http://z.about.com/d/tattoo/1/0/s/Z/011503k.jpg

is that your tattoo? i mean i only ask because years ago i told "nah alberto jewbear christ bibby" that i was a rabbit and then he ended up getting a tattoo of a rabbit on his leg

true story

Muppet Babies, we make our dreams come true
Muppet Babies, we'll do the same for you

Kermit: When your world looks kinda weird and you wish that you weren't there
Piggy: Just close your eyes and make believe and you can be anywhere

Kermit: I like adventure
Piggy: I like romance
Fozzie: I love great jokes
Animal: Animal dance!!
Scooter: I've got my computer
Skeeter: I swing through the air
Rowlf: I play the piano
Gonzo: And I have blue hair
Bunsen: Me, I invent things
Beaker: Mee mee mee meee!

Nanny: Is everything all right in here?
All: Yes, Nanny.

Muppet Babies, we make our dreams come true
Muppet Babies, we'll do the same for you

Muppet Muppet Muppet Muppet
Babies Babies Babies Babies
Make dreams come true.


also a big nose

[Gonzo]

hey battle have you not seen this thread?

http://www.chatischeap.com/showthread.php?t=155 :aim-secret:

[-sampants-]

u guys are all crazy bitches

[KrayzieRoach]

i cant believe people on this board actually share their numbers and talk/text on a regular basis
/only read first 3 pages

[Forte]

Meh things happen
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[Gonzo]

i cant believe people on this board actually share their numbers and talk/text on a regular basis
/only read first 3 pages

:aim-shocked: C========8

[Suicide Bounce]

After reading some more of the posts this is my conclusion.

There are certain members here who have a serious crush on Iris. I've actually thought this about a couple people for a while. Cesar isnt acting that strangely, people can sit here and preach all they want but we all have insecurities and jealousy, just to different degrees and for different things.

I think alot of the anger here is actually coming from jealousy from some of the other members. I think one or two or three or so people here have an actual crush on Iris. Other wise I dont think it would be such a big deal if Cesar was restricting her from talking.

Just my opinion.

playing on the other side of the fence to keep the thread alive

nice

[OuTSMoKE]

None of my ex's have been like that, and my current lady isn't either. But my buddy that lived with me for a bit wound up marrying his baby's mother so she moved in with us for a while, it was FUCKED. Not only did she not want him having female friends, she would get pissed if while watching TV he didn't look away when an attractive female came on TV.

[Taskmaster]

i cant believe people on this board actually share their numbers and talk/text on a regular basis
/only read first 3 pagesASL phone number and area code thanks.

[Seven The Messenger]

This happened to me before, I have a close friend and she started dating this guy at her job(first mistake) and we went from talking everyday to me not hearing from her for almost a whole year, I seriously thought she was dead or something...she literally just disappeared. A few weeks before her disappearance me and my homeboy helped her moved into her apartment, a few weeks afterwards when I hadn't heard from her I drove by her place and it was empty and I would call her cell phone and it went straight to her voicemail.

I found one of her friends on Myspace and I asked him had he heard from her but to no avail. A few months later she eventually contacted me through some people that we both know and it turns out that she let her dumb boyfriend at the time control her social life, it's also her fault because she allowed him to do it.

[seeking]

I agree with aya, and its not often that I do, but he made some really good points.

To -seven-, why did u drive by ur female friends house? Ur telling me you would have done the same if that person was a guy?

Im not trying to single u out or anything but I think its a good example of why bfs get mad...like how would u feel as a bf and ur gf has a friend driving by her house to check up on her? That's kinda suspect regardless of your intentions
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[KrayzieRoach]

ASL phone number and area code thanks.

check ur PM's :aim-kissing:

[bosnianthug]

your "friend" is the bigger douche. if some1 wants to put restrictions on you like that, they obviously dont trust you so what's the point of the relationship?

do u need a tissue tho?

[Gonzo]

your "friend" is the bigger douche. if some1 wants to put restrictions on you like that, they obviously dont trust you so what's the point of the relationship?

do u need a tissue tho?

i will take a wild guess that you have not read much of this thread

[bosnianthug]

i will take a wild guess that you have not read much of this thread
nope. fill me in, i dont wanna read 14 pages of replys.

[Gonzo]

nope. fill me in, i dont wanna read 14 pages of replys.

cox made the thread mocking battlezone and iris :aim-doubt:

[bosnianthug]

cox made the thread mocking battlezone and iris :aim-doubt:
oh.
well then

HAH

[Harley Quinn]

/reports his sig :cesar:

[Harley Quinn]

Prude

:) yyyyeeesssshh

[Seven1/2Designs]

Prude
* Prune

[Harley Quinn]

* Prune


:???:

[Seven1/2Designs]

Semi inside joke, I suppose.

[Harley Quinn]

Semi inside joke, I suppose.

oh is it the you like young ones joke? =/

dude ur hat looks awesome straight

[Harley Quinn]

as for the whole "scaring your girl into not talking to other guys"... FUCK THAT. if anything, i talk to other guys to scare my bf into treating me better. you have to be happy in a relationship... and if you're missing something that makes you happy it's only natural to go find that something. it's called being human. no relationship is 100% perfect but i'm a firm believer that if you know something makes you happy and you're not getting it, but know you can from someone else, then go for it. maybe it's cheating, maybe it's not... but at the end of the day it's about yourself being happy and that's what matters.


I just dont agree with this part. See its wrong to go find someone WHILE you're with someone already. I cant agree that talking to others to find what I'm missing is a good idea because everyone has their flaws, whether u talk to one dude all of them will lack one characteristic another has. It'll be unusual to be in that predicament and have your significant other be okay with it. To me, thats doing him wrong so I wouldn't even dare to risk it. I'd rather talk things out with my bf for us to be happy and find that happiness we're seeking

[King Bowser]

She isn't human. She's like a fucking gargoyle or mixed with a hog or some shit.

[seeking]

I just dont agree with this part. See its wrong to go find someone WHILE you're with someone already. I cant agree that talking to others to find what I'm missing is a good idea because everyone has their flaws, whether u talk to one dude all of them will lack one characteristic another has. It'll be unusual to be in that predicament and have your significant other be okay with it. To me, thats doing him wrong so I wouldn't even dare to risk it. I'd rather talk things out with my bf for us to be happy and find that happiness we're seeking

wow, i didnt even read sam's posts back in this thread, but yea i agree with iris, actually its not even a matter of agreeing or disagreeing since its not even an opinion, what you said is how you have and maintain a relationship. if you cant do that then you arent girlfriend material

[-sampants-]

fuck you all. seeking how about you go to texas and cuddle inbetween iris and cesar maybe suck his dick too and call it a day. that'd be a lot more exciting than whatever homo shit you two PM eachother.

everyone's entitled to their own opinion. i didnt say i was looking for someone else while i'm with steven. so i respect that you disagree iris. but calm the fuck down everyone it's not that serious

[seeking]

me and caeser dont pm back and fowarth

[-sampants-]

but he wants your phone number/AIM sn so he can get "advice" from you.

and you've told me he PMs you to complain about people hitting on iris from here.
dont fucking lie to me. i hate you all

[King Bowser]

lmao those are all lies

i didn't want his number to ask for advice.. i got his digits :ghey: but i might not even use them cuz I already told him what i needed to


damn you're so insecure sampants :ghey:

[Harley Quinn]

fuck you all. seeking how about you go to texas and cuddle inbetween iris and cesar maybe suck his dick too and call it a day. that'd be a lot more exciting than whatever homo shit you two PM eachother.

everyone's entitled to their own opinion. i didnt say i was looking for someone else while i'm with steven. so i respect that you disagree iris. but calm the fuck down everyone it's not that serious

hey i didn't change your post I QUOTED you. You said you'd talk to dudes to make him insecure so that SEEKING could treat YOU better. All i said was that DOING THAT is wrong. It IS basically a form of CHEATING. Its YOU trying to make HIM feel insecure, and if that is what you're trying to achieve being in a relationship like that is basically like being in an emotionally abusive relationship the way you WANT him to be insecure. Thats not what you call a GREAT relationship. If anything talking to other guys to make yours want to treat you better is only going to cause you even more problems or even end that relationship. So it isnt good

[King Bowser]

fucking pwnd

[Forte]

Gotta agree with iris, to talk to another guy just to make your current guy (or vice versa of course) insecure is low and is cheating emotionally, which isn't ANY better than screwing some other guy.

[Harley Quinn]

^^ lol chris. i'm serious though, i'm going thru this right now and i'm sick of being accused when i'm being 100% open and honest with everything so steven doesn't think i'm sneaking. it's fucking ridiculous. esp when i'm telling him that i'm not happy and if i'm talking to someone else that's making me happy STEVEN needs to decide if he's going to make me happy or keep doing nothing. i've never been in a relationship so i'm new at this stuff... and i'll never ever cheat on him... but you can't expect someone to waste their time when the relationship is a one way road instead of two. sorry.

So Seeking has to make you happy or you'll continue to talk to dudes to make him insecure about losing you to them? That's like threatening him, Sampants I think that if you continue to talk to dudes to scare him its only going to make him want to leave you. If you're telling him that you are not happy then perhaps you should get with him and talk about what makes you both happy and do such things for each other. Every now and then u should do nice things for him to provoke him to want to do nice things for you such as sneaking sweet little notes in his wallet where his money is or i've even sent flowers to my dude just because i love him to make him feel good. You know, sometimes it just takes teamwork. You gotta give to recieve make him feel loved too. :) all the work shouldnt be all for him to do.

[-sampants-]

it's hard to talk to your sig other about what's bothering you when he doesn't think anything is wrong so he doesn't comprehend why you're upset

please don't put me down or knock me unless you're in my situation. i'm not getting into it anymore here out of respect to steven. thanks.

[-sampants-]

um no i didn't get called out for SPEAKING MY MIND. lol you guys just can't stand hearing someone say something that you don't agree with. this basement is full of cookie cutter posts.


and i find it hilarious you two think you have room to give relationship advice when you have so many problems. your advice is as useless as a remote control with no batteries. fix your own problems then talk shit about me ok thanks.

[Harley Quinn]

how is it you say you RESPECT seeking when here on this thread you keep calling him a Bitch or crybaby?

[-sampants-]

iris

i've seen you get mad at cesar on here many many many times. and maybe call him a name or two

again, dont pick on me for something you've done many times :no:
if you have a problem with me send a PM. dont use me to upp your post count

[King Bowser]

so i let her lick da rapppaaaa