Females and my confesion

[Osiris]

NATURE, a males world (Survival of the fittest):

A females purpose in life is to replicate life and to carry it on by pregnancy. Naturally, the attraction of her partner/mate is what she "see's" (sub-consiously) as a dominating attribute that will help for the continuation of survival aka: Natural Selection. (Hence the fact females like "bad boys" and guys with muscle) This is all sub-consious and to the consious female human today, it is known as "love". A males purpose in life is to carry on life by dominating force. this is achieved by attributes such as extra hormones which supply muscle and aggresion which help for the continuation of survival. Naturally, the attraction of his partner/mate is what he "see's" (sub-consiously) as a dominating attribute that will help for the continuation of survival aka: Natural Selection. (Hence the fact males like "pretty girls" and girls with boobs aka: tits, breasts, love grips and mamma) This is all sub-concious and to the concious male human to day is know as "love".

CIVILISATION, a females world (Human natures jail):

With the dominating compition amongst males came along a game called "who gets to stick their dominating stick into who?" and of course it was always the strongest most dominating male that always won and got the pick. So now the weaker males came to realise that the only way they are gonna get their "dominating" sticks to dominate, is thru team effort. And so the brain was born, and now the strongest most dominating male was also... the DUMBEST! So now domination came in groups. The strongest of all groups were the ones who had written their threats in concrete and proved their words would stay there by torcher and punishment, aka: the Law. And here we have civilisation. where u cant go sticking ya dominating stick in anyone wheneva u like cuz its called rape.

BTNHBOARD, my last resort (Somebody kill me):

Now that ive had my final thought and put it up on sum website where i can speak my mind and the worst domination i can get back are some words written by another monkey, Does that make me feel secure? Not at all, becuz my dominating stick ISNT DOMINATING!!!

FINAL WORD, my ego (It's pay back time):

All of this is written by some caged up monkey of civilisation who dwells in the lowest ranks of the social system due to social dominating attributes which have caused this monkey a mental sickness called social anxiety. As sick as this monkey is, in all his remaining ego hes come on to this web site to leave his confession like piss on a tree. Im kidnapping a young virgin, so suck on my dominating stick all you females who disagree.



Unless of course shy love wants to date me, which i doubt after writting this. please? I live so close to brisbane....

[Gravity]

<--- is a little concerned because this is the second time she's seen the word "rape"

The honest truth is.... security is everything. (NO I'm not talking about money, though I've never known it to hurt a man's odds with the ladies.) But being secure in yourself will take you a long way.

Honestly though, your problem seems to be focused more around getting a little booty and less around finding the right person. Sex is easy to get.... sincere interest and caring are a little harder to come by. Though I'm not sure how much I can sympathize with the seeking of simple physical pleasure from no specific place/person.... I can say that both (love and physical desire) have a lot to do with your sense of yourself.

Seems like you already understand that the dominating men.... well.... actually dominate when it comes to women. But it's not all just brawn and "beauty" either these days. Like yourself a little more and others will like you too. :-) How you feel about yourself displays in your energy. It's just like when some sad sorry individuals go after the girls that have self-esteem issues because they're looking for an easy lay. How do they know who these girls are? Typically they go after the less than attractive, but it often has a lot to do with body language, character, and the way she carries herself over all. (Some women out there do the same thing to men as well.)

Best way to get over your shyness is to just get out there and talk to people. Might not go over too well the first time or so.... but with more practice you'll become more comfortable with yourself. Some women are very shy too and wouldn't dream of going over and talking to a guy. Personally I might make eye contact and position myself near enough to him so that he could speak to me with ease. Never fails if they guy is single and interested. However... if the guy is too shy to say hello or try to strike up a convo... I'd just assume he's uninterested and go on my merry way. And I've only gone that far out of my way if I was very very attracted to someone. Even when under the influence I've only gone up to a complete stranger and flirted twice.

Maybe instead of worrying about the women that throw themselves at men you should think about finding yourself a dominating and aggressive woman? Just make sure she's not one that's going to try to use you as a doormat. Hope that helps some hun!

*~Peace and Blessings~*

[K.Battlezone]

I really don't know what to say..


ROSE GET ON AIM U SLUT.

[ghetto cowboy]

*bizzy voice* shake ya stick.

[Osiris]

Jai Dot, My only gf has been an out going, easy going female. Yeah she dominated me from the begining until i got to know the person better i came out of my shell and became the dominating one. To her, i wouldnt shut up. Im the type of person that chooses one person to be close to me, until i dont agree with somthing about them. Usually it comes down to ego. When their ego over rides their better judgement. The problem i had with this girl was the fact she was more open to her female friend then her bf. People act different around different types of people, i know. But when people try to fit in or make them selves look better for other people by a means of ego, i think is just immature. I dont think out going people are for me. I was sitting in a club once and this hot girl came sat next to me and made it obvious she wanted me to talk. I couldnt let the chance go so i talked to her and not long after there was another one of those uncomfortable silent situations. for some drunk reason i managed to come out with the fact that was in my mind and said "you have sexy lips" she then began to kiss me and i can honestly say i never thought just rubbing cheeks with sum1 could feel so good. i was in love and she agreed to come home with me. She wanted to stay longer and i said thats cool. She wanted me to dance and theres noway i ever dance except for the 2 timesi was so drunk. She clearly liked me and was a regular to this club so she had friends there and was coming back and forth to me. I waited for her and eventually she left without me not knowing. I thought about her for a week, cuz im a male who fell in love. But slowly i came to realise shes a female and it didnt mean shit to her. Yet she ran into my ex a month ago and asked her to tell me to come out. I have but i never see her there. I dont know what my point is anymore so im gonna end it there.

[Gravity]

Not all going females are that way though. As well... you have to remember the people are often different in club or bar settings than they are in their daily lives. For one... people are there drinking. People typically go out to drink dance or flirt (or pick someone up in the case of others). In a club, it's not wise to take half the people there seriously. I've done that only 3 times of the many numbers I've gotten. One of them... I wish I hadn't at all. The other... it was a learning experience. And the last one.... seems to be proving to be ok thus far, but we'll have to see where things go.

I'm not trying to say that people that go to the club are bad (especially not if I'm one of them). But I will tell you that when I go out... I do flirt... and typically it doesn't mean anything to me at all. When people give me their numbers... typically I don't plan to use them. It's just not a setting in which I take things to seriously. And I think it's safe to say that for the most part.... most of my friends are the same way.... cautious about people they meet in such settings.

What I'm saying is someone that knows how to lead and is ambitious. Your girl couldn't have been too much of a leader if she was dramatically changing depending on who she was around. As a leader she wouldn't have to change to fit into her setting.

Try meeting girls at book stores instead of clubs. Or go old school with it and talk to someone at the mall. :-P This way you know the girl isn't drinking and just trying to entertain herself by flirting. Try the supermarket or something. Feel me?

You sound like you need a list. :-) A list of requirements that is. Make a list of the basic things you want in a woman... and not just things like "nice" or "faithful". Your list should have things like.... whether or not she has children, whether or not she's employed, is she in school or does she have a college degree, does she have serious goals in her life that she is working towards. Granted... you might be hard pressed to find someone that meets every single thing on the list, but as long as they meet most of the important ones then it should be safe to give them a try. Is spirituality in a girl important to you, if so how? etc etc.

Seriously though... it seems like you need to have a better idea what you want so that you can know what you're looking for. If you're going off of looks and interest alone... that's going to be a bumpy ride. Once you're sure about your direction... then you'll be better able to check the direction of the other person.

[Curiosity87]

I can agree with the subconscious thing, but you neglected a few point. First individuals often choose mates that when mixed with there traits would produce superior offspring. Thats why some chicks dig brains, and others are drooling over guys at the gym.

[ShyLoVe*]

Unless of course shy love wants to date me, which i doubt after writting this. please? I live so close to brisbane....
=/ I don't hook up online =/

*goes back to reading thread*