Dad got diagnosed with cancer

[$kitzah]

i just found out that he has bladder cancer n that if its spread he's as good as gone......its a rare form of cancer apparently, im gonna move back in for a while when he starts to get surgery n Chemotherapy coz he wont be able to do alot of things on his own, they basically gave him a long painful death sentence, he's 48, and im not looking forward to the road ahead.....im dwelling on this shit n its making me angry, but hey i guess everyone dies in the end, thought id share since this is the "Life Discussion"

pz

[SydDaKiLLaKyd]

damn dawgs that fucken sucks.

[{Btnh} B.B.Gambini]

good luck to your dad

[Mouse]

That sucks Skitzie :( I hope your dad pulls through.

[War-116]

shit.... i hope he get through this one....

[*~Ruthless Ryda~*]

I'm sorry. My grandma had cancer...it was so hard to watch her go through all the pain.

Hopefully you dad will pull through, just be there for him...all those treatments take a lot out of them.

[K.Battlezone]

Be helpful. That's all you can do . Everything else depends on God and the doctors. Keep yea head up homie.

[Genuinity]

i lost my father to lung cancer last year,...

i hope god is with him and he gets well soon

[ThugQueen=)]

I'm really sorry!!..boy, keep ya head up..pray for your dad!!

[RX King]

:-( skitzzy

Not much you can do really, just put your faith in the doctors and whatever kinda god you might beleive in. Be there for him when he needs your help with anything and just enjoy your time with him you know.

[StCThugsta]

i lost my father to lung cancer last year,...

i hope god is with him and he gets well soon
same here but i lost my dad in 2003 he was 53 years old his cancer spread too far before he noticed anything and was gone in 6 weeks :-( :-(

[flybunny]

Wow i am so sorry to hear that. Hope everything turns out ok.

[$kitzah]

i really appreciate them comments, thanks for bein on a serious note with me, i really do appreciate it.

ima be there for him for sure, thats why im movin bak in for a while when the treatment starts

[StCThugsta]

yea definitly be there for him thats the number one thing im proud of is that i was with him everyday for a few hours since i had to be in school and stuf. you cant look back and have regrets....definitly be there
know that how you see him during chemo is not going to be pleasent as he will be quite sick. im happy i didnt have to go through that becasue my dad wanted to enjoy what he had left instead of being sick. either way its still very hard

[Gravity]

I'm sorry to hear that hun. I really do hope that he's about to pull through. Not sure how his insurance is, or how his money is... but it might help to look into some of the better cancer treatment centers. A friend of the family's daughter had cancer at a very young age, and the were positive that she wasn't going to make it. But the proper care she pulled through just fine. :) I hope everything turns out well. I'm also glad to hear that you are being supportive. There are a lot of people that don't try to be. Either they don't care, or just don't know how.

But I wish your father a speedy recovery, and all the best for you and yours.

*~Peace and Blessings~*

[$kitzah]

hrmmm he has a decent amount of money, not alot, ill help out as much as i can but i got a mortage to pay, n im onli 18 well 19 soon, im real busy but im gonna put everything on hold soon so i can move bak in for a while, im gonna take time off work, take my annual leave, n ill still be makin money on the side with other things, but yeh im be there for him, hope it works out coz ive been hella edgy lately....

[ShyLoVe*]

stay strong skitzah

[Bgirl]

sorry to hear that... 48 is so young too :( My aunt is the same age and started out with breast cancer, but now it has spread too much, and has bone cancer now... and it's stage 4 :( ....and the doctors say there's nothing else that they can do... so she has to be on chemo for the rest of her life.... I hope she'll at least win her lawsuit... she's suing her first doctor because when she asked him about the lump in her breast he told her it was nothing to worry about... but if he would have done his job and ran the tests, then they would have caught it soon enough, before it spread... stupid fucking doctor... :x
Also my grandma died from brain cancer when I was 5.
I hate cancer, it's not fair... so I feel you.

[flybunny]

Im so sorry about your father. I hope everything goes well. I lost my grandma to cancer, so I feel you...

[Chick-N-Bone]

sorry to hear that man...good luck to your pops....

[Xtina]

Hope its a positive outcome..take good care of him